I'm white, 6'1, around 240, hairy, full hair/beard, with a thick cock. I've been in my relationship for 18 years, married for 8. My wife had always been self conscious and awkward about sex, especially since I'm the only mam she's ever had. Our 20s were spent dancing around the issue of the lack of sex, but I stuck with it because I love her and thought it would get better.

Once we were married it only got worse (shocking right?) and after the pandemic her depression really started to kick it making it even harder for her to enjoy herself or to even have a desire to ever fuck. Nowadays it seems she only ever wants to have sex to try and get pregnant, something I'm not really looking forward to but I take what I can get.

Long story short (too late) I'm starting to loose my mind a bit. Trying to delicately balance my desire to treat her like a whore to satisfy my own sexual needs and her emotional state is becoming more difficult every month. So I turn to Reddit daily to fantasize about all the women I would rather be fucking without all the added drama involved...

I think I need a side piece, someone who understands that sex should be fun, something we do because we enjoy it and makes life more tolerable. There's so many fantasies I never got to experience because of my dedication and patience. But I'm getting older and I know it won't be long before I'm in a place where making these fantasies a reality is becoming less achievable.

I'm looking for someone who lives either in the Union area where I'm currently attending Grad school, or the Ocean County area where I visit family weekly. I'm hoping to find an actual reliable FWB who understands my situation but is only interested in satisfying each other's needs. Because of past experiences I would need to verify that you are real and would like to spend some time ahead of meeting to make sure we are a good fit.

If any part of this post makes you curious please feel free to message me and let's see if we can form a friendship with some potentially great memories we will won't forget! My next visit to the area will be Tuesday 11/15