I am a successful man with a wife, family, home, and business. Yet there is one more piece to this puzzle that I am missing: you.

You will be younger than me: a woman in her 20s or 30s who knows that her place is as my number two. You will never replace my wife and she will always come first, yet you will give me something she cannot: your submission.

I will be an authoritative presence in your life: advice when you need it, a firm guiding hand, and a keen inventive mind intent on pushing your buttons. We will talk regularly, keep in touch online, and arranging meets when it suits. You will obey my instructions, I will make you feel wanted. But you will understand that you will never come before my work, wife and family, and you will be content with this as your place.

We will meet at our convenience. I will own your body and your mind, taking both to places you have never knew you could reach. You will feel the restrictive embrace of my ropes, the coldness of steel, the bite of my whip. At times I may choose to cause you pain, but you will know that I do so out of love, trusting that I will ultimately force waves of ecstasy from your quivering body until you can give me no more. I will drink your pleasure and you will bask in my delight until eventually you lie in my arms, spent. Until we meet again.

You will please me, and I will instruct you how. You will be easy on the eye: seeing your photographs will make me smile with adoration, and plot wicked delights. You will do as I say. You will love me, and I will love you back, but you must never cross or conflict with the rest of my life, just as I will not interfere with yours. I shall not expect monogamy from you, but should you offer it I shall consider it the most precious gift.

If I have described you, and you live locally enough to me to be able to meet IRL, then write to me with a description of yourself. Your age, approximate location, your interests, passions, kinks and experiences; together with a brief summary of your looks. Write with substance, and you shall receive my full attention.