About Me:

I’m looking to make a real connection, not send you dick pics, at least not initially LOL. I am separated going through a divorce, it will be final in the spring latest. For the record I’ve been married for 21 years. Unhappily for about 15 years; however I wanted my two daughters to grow up with a father to support, guide and influence them as they grew up and matured. I’m now focusing on my own wellbeing and happiness. I am Canadian, but I live and work in New York. I have been here for 6 years and I could be here for another 2 to 5 depending on some of my life choices. I’m well traveled and have lived and worked in 3 counties over the past 14 years. I am 49, fit, athletic build, full head of salt and pepper hair. I get my fair share of looks from the ladies (If I did it right there is a pic in my profile). I love a good laugh even at my expense. I would say I’m cleaver and witty. Probably more introverted but not shy, very confident and outgoing when needed. I’m intelligent, I hold an executive level position, more a natural leader, naturally dominant. If you asked me what I valued most I’d say; trust, honesty, integrity, fairness, loyalty, kindness.

What do I want for the second chapter of my life. I want to find someone that I really do love and emotionally connect with. I’ve only felt that feeling once before and it was a long time ago and it wasn’t with who I married (now divorced). Physical attraction is important and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Early trade of pics will be important to ensure there is an attraction.

What I like in a partner, and by no means are any of these deal breakers, just preferences mostly

- Preferably over 30 year or be very mature if younger. Don’t be shy if you are older very fond of women my age too.

- Non-smoker, non-drug user, social drinker

- Good sense of humor, intelligent, extrovert preferred but not necessary, enjoys affection

- Fit, active and takes care and pride in your appearance, consider yourself attractive

- I’m going to apologize (not because I’m Canadian) but because this might come across as shallow but it is really important for me… I prefer slender, fit women, or athletic slender. Don’t get me wrong I do like curves but I’m just not into big butts and thighs. A nice set of lets and butt in leggings (yoga pants) is my kryptonite!

- Submissive in nature

- A pleasant voice, an accent is a bonus too but no necessary

- A job (even if a home maker)

- Motived to making a change in your current situation

- Has good values

- Grown kids or no kids given that is where I am at in my life.

If you’ve read this far congratulations.