Location; Lansing area, Michigan USA.

I want to start by saying that I am not going to narrow my search on age or location. The best could be someone that is out of my 'usual' focus. I have two primary goals with this: A local FWB or a serious LTR (Any distance so long as you may some day be capable of moving) Secondary goal: New friends.

DISQUALIFICATIONS: If you are a smoker, do any drugs (including 420), have obvious ‘daddy-issues’ or other complicated medial issues, unemployable, looking for a sugar-daddy, or a prude, then hit the X now. I do hope you will find the one for you, but it isn’t Me.

I am 51yrs young. I am told I have a cute smile and bright eyes, and everyone has their own attractions, and I have been with women who love the type I am.. so I know you're out there. Click My profile and you will see me for yourself. If you do reply with interest, send your photo as well so we are on even ground.

I consider Myself to be a Soft-Dom and I enjoy the sensual and softer sides of sex, foreplay, some toys and teasing. I can be 'Daddy' or I can be 'Sir' or, I can be Me. This does not mean I can not be rough, degrading and visit some darker realms of BDSM & taboo fantasies, but it isn’t My desire for full time play. I have fantasies, so do you.. whatever ones we share, we will explore and we can talk about all the others. You will be sharing with me your wants and desires and W/we will act accordingly… and you WILL communicate your wants, needs, limits and steps you’ll take to connect with Me. You may also be looking for an older man for an equal, non-fetish type of relationship. Most of Mine have been equal, and in some senses it’s preferable, but as I started with; I am not narrowing things down.

Communication is sexy. Respect, honesty, trust and in the case of an LTR; loyalty is required. If we develop a FWB, whomever else you see, is your business.

I am okay if you're not close by, if you want to talk, tease, flirt... just be up front about the limits we will have. Yes, I travel from time to time and own my own home for visits.

If you read this far and curious, we can share our interests privately and go from there.