Maybe you're excited not to have your business revealed to family members if you come home the day after, and looking forward to try new things. Maybe you've experienced new ways of thinking for awhile in an intellectual, tolerant environment and you're forced to reevaluate what you like. Maybe you know you want to try a new thing.

I am interested in meeting young guys like you.

To be clear, sex is a significant goal for me but not the only one. This would work better if you're willing to be friends as well as sexual partners, to share your mind and maybe your heart and soul as well as your body.

I'm not specifically interested in college guys. If someone has a good vibe with me that's an adequate start. I just know college is a place of learning new things and being able to go on new roads that might not be so easy otherwise. It's a weird microcosm that uniquely supports exploring and doing your own thing. It's a good bet the guys I'm interested are plentiful in such a positive environment.

That said, I will probably ignore you if you don't put some thought into your response, if you don't say more than "hey," "PM me," or "let's fuck." Yes, sex is the goal but good sex isn't just sex. There are other levels to appreciate. And I'd like to know about you, not just what turns you on.

I understand if you're apprehensive about same sex intimacy. You like what you like but internalized homophobia is a strong (and counterproductive) force that could confuse you and cause you unrest. If it helps, I have never done anything with a guy so if you haven't either we'd be on that level together.

Also, I have my expectations but am willing to have this go in other directions, however likely or unlikely they might be.

I admit things could take a romantic turn. That's not my goal and this is the last aspect of my internalized homophobia to address still. But sometimes things hit you when you least expect it, and it's not necessarily bad.

On the other hand if you're not considering going all the way with a guy but have questions and could use a friend (without benefits), I'm very open to that too. You have my word I won't be pushy (though I can't say much about my maturity lol) because I know what it's like to have someone be so into themselves they're not in a state to consider the other, and I hate that. Even if you don't want to meet but just chat online, I want to give my support. Many good people have given me support over the years and helped me to be the bisexual I am today, and I want to pay it forward and help others be queer in a world that is still too heteronormative.

Young ladies, if this post has piqued your interest, I'm open to that possibility too, though I'm not expecting anything like that.

And even if you're not interested in me at all but still have curiosities, please please please go for it! You are an adult but you're probably not considering decisions that will have an impact on the rest of your life. And if you're in college, there are so many others that would be a great match with you. Statistically you aren't the only one who is wondering "what if?" When I was younger I never considered being with a guy was an option for me even though the idea did turn me on sometimes. Looking back I kind of regret not taking advantage of any potential opportunities when such opportunities were relatively easy to find. You have such an opportunity but you also have the right to be attracted to members of the same sex and thoroughly enjoy your time with them. Do not let anyone ever let you convince you otherwise. I eagerly encourage you to check it out. You will not regret it. Even if you don't like it at least you will know from experience and it won't damn you for the rest of your life. But what if you would like it? There's no good reason not to try.

If you've read this far, thank you! And you have the kinds of smarts and persistence that appeals to me.

I eagerly await a response from guys who are looking to start something, even if it's chatting online, but hopefully eventually open to meet in person in a private setting.