Ideally? The power and dynamic isn’t so much of the name, as it is the trust and role—provoking some unnatural lust and taboo around the provocative nature of being a caregiver to your partner. In it’s rawest sense it goes against popular opinion because normally that relationship transcends that normal bond allowing for a additional level of intimacy and sexual tension that’s allowed to be explored with a Fatherly figure of sorts.

Outside of that, my preferences are someone who is open minded. Height and weight proportionate, enjoys that attraction, able to communicate and articulate. As far as kinks, I’m not really into acting out as though you regressed below 6yo with temper tantrums, diapers, bottles etc. more so the clingy, excitable and somewhat intoxicating nature of being a center in a little girls life: who she can count on and fill that void with. I adore structure, routine, and building a ideal situation where she blossoms with praise, and tasks etc. when a wild streak comes, there’s multitudes of ways to calm or even snuff out that flame of rebellion. In addition I’m also into denial, impact, OTK spanking, light bondage and safe sane consensual , trauma and kink friendly being a little jagged myself but I request there’s deeper levels of communication and safe words/systems in place. If that is something she wants, but this takes time…there’s no reason to rush.

I’m 5’9 and 185lbs, tattooed, white, veteran army medic turned into nerd-dad software engineer, fit and attractive. Gainfully employed. Single. And open to your situation or living conditions. I just ask you take pride in yourself and appearance and hygiene is important to you, finally have an affinity towards age gaps.

If this resonates with you, please send a message. I’d love to explore…and there’s much more too me: but this allows more room for conversation and personality to be discovered. I’m sweet with my words, but heavy with my aggression. I’m sure it’s someone’s flavor.