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35 (M4F) New to #KansasCity - Connecting with locals for convos, companionship, and maybe cuddles or more?
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snuggle-w-me is a male age 35 looking for a female in Kansas
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I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time and interest in me.

About me? Iā€™m a dominate straight male - White/Hispanic, 5ā€™8ā€ and a physically fit individual. I work in a professional job in which I do travel often - additionally, Iā€™m in a masters degree program; life keeps me busy on most days, however, I do carve time for whatā€™s important to me. I just turned 35, but most think Iā€™m in my late 20s; good genes, I suppose. I am intelligent and able to hold a conversation, but most of all, I am a great listener. I am also the guy that has an ability to get people at ease, which is important in social meet ups. Don't you agree? Expect honest, trust and transparent from our interactions; I donā€™t beat around the bush or have subtle statements that become more of riddle - like to work the problem head on and fix it to move forward with enjoying life; expect the same from you. Have a balance of being a homebody and hobnob (mixing socially). I enjoy to cuddling in various situations (watching a movie/show, naps, to improve our mental/emotional state, mutual connection, etc) and, or giving/receiving massages. Other superficial things that may peak your eye candy interests; most find me handsome, have sexy model body, young, and cute. Finally, cleanness, hygiene and self-care is important to me.

About you? I don't have a single type, per se, as it is more about finding the interesting in every person (topic for a conversation?). Speaking of conversation, you are able to hold your own. -The personality bonuses. Being energetic, not picky, funny, caring, fit-or-physically active, being understanding, loves mutual touch or cuddling, is compassionate, empathetic, is self-aware, values personal growth and balanced with witty and perhaps irreverent humor are some of the key things I look for. Bonus, enjoys board/social games, video games, and low-mid density sports (bowling, golf, etc). -The physical. In all honesty, attractiveness comes within; but a nice bonus is to have some eye candy. If asked to pick a body type - I have none, as long as they are an active individual; and would like to share some active activities. A hair color? Again, no preference, but I have always been more attracted to redheads, strawberry blonds and true blonds. It comes down to being a visual aspect, based on where I grew up. I will tell you that I am sucker for colored eyes. In the end, none of these are dealbreakers. -The sexuality. I need to bring as it could be a future possibility. We are all human and donā€™t lie to yourself, compassion/pleasure is something we all enjoy - attractiveness tied with emotional chemistry for each other may led to one thing to another (only if there is consent; my biggest rule). It may surprise you, but if I say ā€œIā€™m not readyā€ please do not get upset or angry, and please donā€™t think my attraction towards you has something to do with that; but I need you to be understanding as we attempt at a later date - trust me it will be worth the wait and you wish you met me sooner. Anyways, IF, (big IF), we ever become sexual active, I need you to please be honest, transparent, upfront and communicate in a timely matter; not after the fact. Even if we are in the middle of any action, do not be afraid as I will understand your decision and will respect it. Again, if you feel something, say something; donā€™t wait as I do not want either of us to live a life of regret. All decisions are made mutually, with consent, and we will respect each other. If you asked what are my sexual preferences were - I am very orally inclined, as I enjoy giving pleasure; but thatā€™s a topic for another day. -The status. I have no issue if your attached, as I am (itā€™s complicated); as it reduces judgment and certain expectations are set up front. Not looking to change your situation, just have some fun and part as friends. If you are not attached, please understand my boundaries and respect my situation, as it is complicated.

Looking for? As the title mentioned, I am seeking females for companionship; which could include an emotional connection and who are open to new experiences. We don't necessarily have to dwell on the concepts in the possibility of our interactions that could turn sexual; BUT thatā€™s IF we both share the same chemistry, and must be consensual - but I do accept them as possible options in a menu of options.

About us? This is pretty much an open slate, with some caveats. As you realized, consent plays a big role in every decision we make together. Donā€™t waste each otherā€™s time, as our time is the most valuable thing we have. Be upfront on what our interaction or relationship will be (friendly, cuddles only, etc). Not looking for a long-term relationship, however, love works in mysterious ways. Also, we are not tied to each other, unless we both decide to become sexual, then the activities can be exclusive; I want us both to be safe about this. Lastly, if it doesnā€™t workout between us, it should end as it started, being civil and without any issues.

Our meet? As anyone would tell you - itā€™s best for us to meet someone in a public area to get to know each other, establish trust, and get a better perspective of what our future interactions will be. Ideally, Iā€™d love to find someone local so we can meet, cuddle while having meaningful convos or just to hang out from time to time. Once we are comfortable with each other, we can move on to the next stage of our friendship.

Summary? You made it! Thanks again for reading and if you are interested, send me a message. Life is beautiful, complicated, exciting, funny, enjoyable and magical, and I want to experience every aspect with someone. We can talk, laugh, cuddle, ponder, vent, diffuse with humor, lament, banter that turns into flirtation, etc. - all of the above!

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