Hello! I have enjoyed both the DDlg and the BDSM dynamic for a long time now and it comes very natural to me. I have a few hobbies that I excel in, I am financially stable and I’ve loved to learn my whole life. I would love to find someone to spend a lot of the down time I have with.

To name some things I am into I enjoy diapering, bondage, dressing you up, teaching, chastity, orgasm control, spanking, ropes, bondage, forced orgasms and making you uncomfortable for deserved and/or undeserved punishments. My Fetlife name for yours?

While I often find myself Topping I do occasionally enjoy being the bottom, if I do it to you then the rule is that you can do it to me (if you want to). And If you have something you like that’s even better, let’s give it a go!

I like smart and affectionate women types that enjoy touching and being touched. If you can only respond with 3 word sentences then I'd ask you move on. If you like to be diapered (wetting only), dressed and cared for that’s a big plus! If you've not been diapered or dressed before that's ok too!

I would like to find someone that is also wanting a long term relationship but I understand that that is not always in the cards so I am also accepting short term loving and caring relationships as well.

If you’d like to chat I’m all ears!

PS: While I am very flattered by being contacted by young ladies I have to not be "the creepy old man". Please be over 30 but the closer to my age the better. I'd also like to throw in that I have completed the children phase of my life and I do not want (nor can I make) more of my own, if you happen to have some hanging around that's ok, but know that I will be telling them crazy shit to repeat at home because I think that is really funny :)

PPS: If you have trust issues then there is nothing I can do for you, have a trust plan to execute. I will bring up sex so if that frightens you then please do not reply. Please have time in your life for me as I will have it for you. I encourage you to look at my past reddit posts. I’m the real deal so have your big girl panties on (or the little ones, depending on what you like).