( disclaimer alert: I will be crossposting this on several subreddits)

Or is Mercury in a perpetual state of retrograde? As of late, it seems like it's been disappointment after disappointment trying to find the right one for me. Before I go on, please stop reading if you are:  

• a poor communicator  
• currently experiencing a mid-life crisis and just wants to find and pound multiple attractive young women 
• into BS mind games  

Now, for those of you who are still reading, what I want is fairly simple; I want a steady playmateship with an attractive older man. I have always been intensely attracted to older men who are confident in their maturity and take pride in their upkeep.

I love the age gap aspect of the dynamic and love exploring that through different roleplaying scenarios. Please note that while I adore older men, I am not necessarily interested in men over the age of 60, unless you completely blow me away.  

I am currently in a long-term relationship with a partner who is supportive of my desire to explore this. He will not be involved in our situation, but he will be aware of you as my playmate. I’m open-minded when it comes to personal situations (i.e., I won’t mind you being married), but I have found that it is a better experience if you are in a similar situation as I am or single, since I am unable to host and would prefer to come to you. Ideally, I would want to spend time with you a minimum of once a week. I'm the mom of a toddler and a busy professional, so sometimes things are hectic, but I am usually able to arrange things on my end to meet with some notice.  

In my day-to-day life, I am a young professional who is dominant, unabashed, passionate, sensual, intelligent, sarcastic, and confident. I also have a very slick and smart mouth. When you see me, you see a Goddess who knows what she's about. However, what I crave on the inside is a strong mature man to claim me. Not by being super aggressive and acting like Johnny Bravo, but by treating me as your baby girl and guiding me with a firm and sensual hand. Lately, I've been wanting this more and more. I also have what seems like an insatiable libido. I do not believe I am a true sub, but with the right man, I have found that I can be sexually submissive.  

Physically, I stand at 5'11" and have been immensely blessed by the melanin Gods and Goddesses and possess a very curvy body. I have a very pretty face and prominent features. If you prefer women with long hair, then keep looking, because I don't have it. Think Wakanda warrior, that will give you a great mental preview of my physicality. I do prefer my men as tall or taller than I am, so keep that in mind.  

What I expect physically: As I mentioned above, I prefer my men taller, so there's that. I also adore an older man who is in relatively good shape, no six-pack needed, but I'm not into the Santa Claus physique. While I love a soft beard, it is not a deal-breaker. I also thoroughly enjoy well-endowed men. Not seeking a mandingo, but a member with decent girth is appreciated.  

As far as kinks, there are too numerous to mention, so we can go through my list of kinks through conversation, but just know that I am very open-minded and quite the deviant.  

If you've made it this far, kudos to you! I take it my epistle has piqued your interest.

The next step is for us to converse, so please send me a chat message on Reddit with your favorite afternoon snack so that I know you are serious.

I will NOT respond to you just saying "hi" or otherwise. If the conversation goes well, we can move to KIK or Telegram.