Hi, i'm Pierre, i'm 30 yo, from the east of France, near Switzerland and i'm a freelance graphic designer.

I work from home, so i don't go out often except for hiking, groceries shopping, etc. I'm single since january 2020 after two years together, i have no friends left here anymore, so basically the last few months were a bit lonely (which could be fine if i wasn't already on the lone side).

Why this post ?

Even tho i'm on Tinder and got a few decent matches, BUT i've never really connected with the person i was talking with, because i'm slowly realizing that people on Tinder do enjoy having a (big) social life, with a lot of friends, going out for parties, etc. I'm more on the cosy side, and it's rare to find people like that (at least here). So taking in consideration than people on Reddit "should" be more like me, i was like "what the hell! Let's try!".

About me

• 1m80, 90kg, v shape, definitely not skinny, yet i'm not fat either, nor flat (trying to get rid of that little excess tho)
• Brown hair, brown eyes
• Tattoos (upper chest, and left arm) (plenty more to come)
• Calm temper, optimistic, can be stubborn too, impatient.
• I play piano, even if i played for 9 years when i was younger, i'm starting to get back to it !
• I don't smoke, i don't take drugs, i don't smoke weed, but i like some vine and tequila.
• Definitely on the naughty side, yet monogamous (but won't mind sharing for a MFF or FF on your own but no guys (: ).
• In a relationship, i really enjoy going outside, doing things a couple do, but i also love being comfy at home, and doing our things, i genuinely enjoy sharing activities, even tho i love my personal space too.

Hobbies

• Art and general knowledge, i'm very curious, i love to learn things.
• Video games (wanna share that too!) (LoL, Cyberpunk2077, WoW, Among Us, Fall Guys, and so much more).
• Gardening (flowers/green plants, vegetables) i do my own vegetable garden each year.
• Music , i need that in my life. (mostly metal, classical music, jazz, electro, a bit of US Rap, but i get bored easily)
• DIY projects
• Animals (i have 3 cats, and i'm fostering a dog), plus the animal cause concerns me a lot, i'm vegetarian. Yet i won't judge you if you eat meat, because meat is fucking good.
• Learning languages ! Actually i know FR/EN, i understand spanish but have difficulties to talk back, and i'm also learning RU/JP (but i'm just starting).
• Some others things i don't think of yet. :D

What am i looking for ?

• Be 18 (if mature enough) - 30 years old, i really enjoy smart people and people with interests.
• Be cute (i won't hide the fact that i need someone that i find cute AND smart, can't be just cute sorry, empty shell, not for me!), not chubby, i like someone in a decent shape :)
• Preferably in France / Switzerland because it's near from my hometown, but Germany / Belgium / Luxembourg / Espana / Italy / UK / Russia (that last one is further away but.. Russian girls right.) is fine too ...
• ... if willing to relocate in the future (already have my house here!)
• Be independant, i mean i don't want someone who needs me EVERYTIME, like in the needy way, i love cuddling, giving my attention, etc, but i will not be your father and tell you what to do, but i'm happy to help tho!
• And you definitely are looking to settle down. :)

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1. Disclaimer : I have some issues sticking with people, not because i don't want to, but i'm always running away when i feel i'm getting attached, because of the fear of being abandoned again (as an adopted child it's an issue i still haven't go over with), that explains the no friends part haha, but if you manage to show me that i can count on you and take news if i don't, i will do the same.)
2. Disclaimer : i've been cheated on, yet i won't be jealous nor possessive, i really think trust can be real, but with me it's either black or white, i won't forgive you for doing a mistake (an important one, not like "oh crap you broke my mug, gtfo" haha) but i think you get me.