About me:  I'm a big guy, I'm African American, I have my own place and live alone (can host), have a great job, single, 33.  Degrees in psychology and work in mental health/substance abuse, thus more equip than most and not scared if you have some issues as long as you're active with them.

Why you'd want to be my little, sub, slave, etc:  I have over twelve years of experience in nearly all dom-ran dynamics with big age gaps either younger or older than me.  I'm affectionate, cuddly, don't mind you being very clingy, sadist (somewhat important), firm/stern, enjoy structure and rules, and don't mind brats (not to be confused with those who just have authoritative issues).  Essentially I do well with most.

What you should be:  Great at communication (a few hours for a small text, go away), single, near my age, or at least legitimately mature and capable of intelligent conversation because it's a requirement.  Very kink and open minded with a good sex drive (bonus points if you're a masochist and into rougher things like free use, cnc, impact play, 24/7 TPE).  Nearby or can afford to travel semi-monthly (I can take care of the rest once here).  Actually know what you want and want to be involved in a long-term monogamous relationship (no more unsure people).  Enjoy not sexual things like domestic chores, games, music, movie/show watching, random outings like the beach (several near me), theme parks, cooking together, homebodies are fine too!

Areas of conflict (these things usually don't work out, so avoid if they seem like you:

Bad at communication, lie or omit alot, spiteful, lack of commiting, argumentative, close-minded, don't like big guys, don't like african americans, are a serious pet person (traumatic experience and allergic to several), have or want children (they are very difficult to time manage within this lifestyle), does drugs or drink excessive alcohol (I WORK with substance abuse).