Hello lovely Redditors! I’ve connected with some really great people over the past several months, but in the Venn diagram of what I’m looking for, I’ve decided a different approach is in order.

First, I’m married and you should be too, or at least not care that I am. I get it. That’s a hard no for some people. No judgements either way.

Second, I’m a natural Dom who loves to nurture and guide. That doesn’t mean I won’t gladly put you in your place or treat you like a total cum slut when warranted. But I’m not sadist and prefer softer subs or those new to exploring this side of themselves.

Third, while I’m a Daddy who’s open to a range of age gap dynamics, I’m looking for more than just a sexual or kink-based relationship. I’m seeking a genuine mental and emotional connection with someone that has the time and energy to invest in developing something real. If that’s not what you’re looking for, again, no judgments.

Okay, if you’ve made it this far…

I’m an attractive, well-educated guy who’s lived and traveled all over the world. I love music, art, design, movies, literature, as well as deep conversations that can last all night. But I also love exercise, spontaneous road trips, meeting new people, and being outside as much as humanly possible—swimming, walking, hiking, biking. (My newest obsession is pickleball, so bonus points if you play or are interested in learning!)

I’m fairly tall (6’1”), take pretty good care of myself, and have a “hot for teacher” vibe. People always assume I’m younger than I am, though if you look close enough you’ll see the grey in my beard! As for you, while physical chemistry is obviously important, I don’t have a particular body type, style, or look that I’m attracted to. I’m open to different cultures, backgrounds, ethnicities and races. For me, sexual and physical attraction starts with mental connection. So smart girls always move to the front of the line!

Finally, no offense, but I’m left leaning politically and so if that’s not something you’re down with, let’s give each other a miss.

If any of this strikes a chord, I’d love to chat. If not, thanks for reading!