i’ve recently made a post on here, but i thought i’d revise it a little more!

i’ll start with a quick description of myself physically! i’ll also go ahead and upload some photos of some common outfit combos i wear! anyway- i am at a mighty 5’3 ft tall, and a little on the curvier side. (side note: i have been regularly going to the gym and eating healthier the last couple months so i’ve lost some weight) i have short black hair and brown eyes! i am also supposed to wear glasses, but i never do! if you care, i am also a mix of asian and puerto rican, but honestly i just look white hahaha.

interests: i am an avid reader! i love to indulge myself into a good fantasy book, and on the occasion cheesy romance. i love art, such as painting and drawing! i also love museums and art galleries! i also love the outdoors! i love to hike and camp, really anything to do with being outside! last thing!! recently i’ve been trying to find my style, and i’ve been thrifting and dressing heavily inspired by vintage fashion! so that’s something new i am exploring and experimenting with!

music: i’d like to say my taste is delightfully all over the place. like the rest of me too hahah. i love anything dreamy and melancholy like lana del rey, but i regularly belt out to korn and fallout on my way to work. fiona apple, lorde, sublime, hole, nirvana, system of a down, and pierce the veil are just a FEW of my other favorites!

oh! i also LOVE to cook and bake!! i’ve been watching the food network and cooking all the meals since like 10, so i pretty much consider myself a professional- but i’ll let you be the judge. :-)

work! i am an assistant events coordinator, i really do immerse myself into work a litllleee too much. on the plus side though! i do tend end up with sometimes up to weeks at a time off! so, sometimes i am just a bad texter in the times i am working hehe. fair warning.

as for relationships, i’m after something real and meaningful- no fleeting connections or casual flings. i am open to the idea of relocating or having children, but i’m in no rush to write those chapters of my life. i don’t have any must haves or strict checklists in a partner- im just here to see where serendipity takes me!!

lastly, finally, the long awaited question: why older men???

i think its simply just the rhythm of my life. i’ve been surrounded by much older individuals my entire life, im the you guest sibling in an older family, and my parents are 10 years apart in age as well. many of my friends have had to trade bar hopping for deep conversations over coffee in order to include me. maybe, it’s no surprise then that im drawn to older men- men who know what they want, who value something lasting. beyond attraction (which, be honest, it’s definitely there), it’s about connecting to someone whose souls speaks the same language as yours. someone who isn’t just looking for the next best thing, but something real.

i tried to leave some poetic mystery there, but it seems i’ve failed! i don’t mind to continue writing the novel of my life, but i’ll leave at this for now