Hi! To begin- PLEASE do not message me using nicknames. No, I am not your princess. I am not your sweetie or your baby or whatever nickname you want to use. It's creepy and I will block you. I want to get to know you beyond kink. Please be between 31-45 and live in the US...preferably in a blue state or willing to move to one. I talk too much...so, this will be great practice for you!

I'm a 31yr old assistant teacher. I'm in charge of people all freaking day. I want someone to be in control of ME.

Trust and communication are a MUST HAVE. I want to have conversations that are effortless and just happen naturally. O want to stay up late talking and wake up sleepy but without regret. I want to feel excited when I see a text from you. Not only that, but I want someone to feel excited when they receive one from me. I want someone to have the same excitement when they think about me.

I want us both to feel safe enough to be our authentic selves...the good and the bad (nobody is perfect). Let's get vulnerable!

I'm not really experienced in this at allll but I've been interested in this for a long time. "What made you decide to do this now"- great queation, Rob! I have been looking for a dom for a whiiile but I've had no luck. I will not give up (DO NOT send pointless messages telling me good luck. It's annoying. I don't need your luck, thanks).

I do know what i want something that's not only in the bedroom. I want it to be the dynamic of the whole relationship. I want a few steps below tpe, because i don't want to ask permission to pee or to breathe. Ya know? I'm sure as hell not starting out with that. But I want the rules. I want the punishments. I want the stuff.

Here are kinks I believe I have: 1. Bondage (tie me up bit please don't leave me tied to the bed). 2. Orgasm control/edging 3. Praise (not really into degradation...idc if it's a big part of bdsm. I could do a tiny bit but don't make me cry). 4. Mexican food and aftercare (cuddle me and take me to get Mexican) 5. Occasional full-blown tpe (like a weekend of it and maybe we can make it all the time if we love it).

My NOs:

1. Anything illegal
2. Anything public
3. Cum play (NASTY)
4. Anything non-consensual (that includes weenie pics- only weenie you'll see from me is a picture of my weenie dog and I expect the same from you without my consent).
5. Obviously, kids, animals, scat, blood, violence

My hobbies and stuff:

1. Being too afraid to drive and being a passanger princess...like the princess I am.
2. Listening to the same few songs over and over and over.
3. Staying in my jammies all day and going to my local grocery store in them. Who will I see, anyway? Parents from my job? Who cares?
4. Studying my astrology chart like I understand what I'm reading.
5. The occasional video games. I have a Nintendo switch and I really need to start playing it more.
6. Making a list of things I need to do and forgetting to do them (if I write it down, I'll just lose it or forget I even wrote it).
7. Staying up too late on a work night
8. Overthinking