Hey, thank you for visiting my post! I'm really excited to get to know you ❤️

I am 57 years old and live in a small town south of Stuttgart, Germany. I have studied literature and psychology and now work in healthcare. I am divorced and have a son. He is 17 years old and lives with me. I probably don't want more children.

In my leisure time I love to go bouldering. I spend two, sometimes three afternoons every week in a local climbing gym; on one or two mornings I go to a fitness studio to do core stability training. I am 196 cm tall, weigh around 85 kg, and am slim and fit. Sometimes I go jogging, mostly when it's warm.

I write novels (mostly science fiction and fantasy) and I draw. I like to be outside in nature. I love taking long walks, exploring landscapes and cities on foot. I'm a daytime person and don't much enjoy clubs and bars. I like cooking and baking, and I love reading.

I would describe myself as an extroverted introvert, that is, I'm easygoing, open and like to socialize, for example in the climbing gym, but I also need a lot of time by myself and, when I'm in a relationship, alone with my loved one.

I prefer quiet evenings, reading, talking, cuddling, cooking together, taking an evening stroll. I'm generally optimistic, I'm an active person, I am kind and tender, a good listener, I can talk about my emotions and will care for you and support you in your endeavors.

I'm looking to build a monogamous longterm relationship based on honesty, open and constructive communication, mutual support, loyalty, kindness, and care.

I deeply respect anyone's lifestyle and choices, but please respect that for a romantic relationship these are my limits:

• Please do not smoke or take drugs.
• Only women assigned female at birth.
• No dogs.
• No one-night stands, friends with benefits, affairs, or open relationships.
• I'm not submissive.

My ultimate green flags are:

• Kindness, warm-heartedness, friendliness, and tenderness.
• You have your shit together.
• A long and extensive message describing who you are, what you do, and what you are looking for.

I speak German and English.