I am looking for a genuine romantic relationship. Yes, with lots of kink, but also lots of love and affection. I am not looking to hook up or simply to sext.

Some of my most emotionally rewarding romantic relationships have been with trans women. Might be a coincidence of course, but I hope that lightning strikes again.

I have always found being a Daddy-type very natural, it's in my DNA, being an emotional caregiver. In terms of sex and kink, I have found being dominant comes quite naturally, but I have also frequently dabbled in being submissive. I have been a Daddy Dom much of the time, but have been a submissive daddy more recently.

I have tried to reflect a lot on just what I want and who I am, what I enjoy, what I like and don't like. To be honest, I have bounced back and forth between being dominant and submissive a lot the past couple of years. As I said, I find being dominant quite natural, and I enjoy a lot of aspects to it. In terms of kink, it's a lot of fun, and in a relationship overall, I can be very controlling, although I do not want to micromanage every aspect of someone's life. As for being submissive, I love some of the kinks, but have realized that I don't truly enjoy submitting.

I am actually a bottom at times, not a submissive. And even more so, I am generally more comfortable being in control, even while bottoming, so I am a dominant bottom at that.

I have enjoyed a couple of instances when I have watched my partners have sex with others by video, when in long-distance relationships. I really hope to experience this in-person going forward.

In terms of being a Daddy Dom, I certainly am in some aspects, however, if you regress often, and non-sexually, then I am not the Daddy for you. If you need someone to care for you emotionally and perhaps even be a father-type figure in your life, then I might be that.

You identify as a woman publicly.

You are younger than me, between about 28 and 45.

You must be in Canada and must be single.

I am 55 years old and live in London, Ontario. I am open to long-distance at first but cannot relocate so please be able to yourself. Until somewhat recently I was built like Santa Claus, though I had weight loss surgery in 2022 so that is a work in progress.

I am on disability due to depression and anxiety, but I do a combination of volunteer work and part-time paid consulting. I share a place with my mom for both financial reasons and because at her age she needs help around the home.

I have a daddy-type personality - I am very caring, nurturing, and will be your best friend and biggest cheerleader in life. I simply cannot turn this part of myself off. While I can be very kinky, I also absolutely love to cuddle.

I am looking for someone to connect with emotionally. Happiness comes from forming a bond, not just agreeing about kinks. I have so many kinks, I am happy to pick and choose, to adapt to a potential partner's needs and desires, if they are right for me in other ways.

I am monogamous and while I am open to something like watching my partner play with others, I do expect emotional monogamy from them as well.

If you're interested or at least curious, please message me.