I'm a bit irreverent. Friends say they are never sure what I am going to say, which is glowing praise. Even if I have moments of being deeply unserious, I value assertiveness in my everyday life. I like that I'm strong, fit, and decent looking. I wouldn't call myself an egomaniac, but I have a good thing going on. Having that center makes it easy to feel comfortable with myself and comfortable behind the wheel. But I don't always want to be in control; sometimes it's nice not having to think, turning off my brain, and letting someone else lead.

In relationships, older never really bothered me, and age didn't particularly matter. In my 20s and 30s I was accustomed to dating women a few years younger than me, but I took a chance on someone older, in her mid-to-late thirties. It didn't bother me--until it did. The years of difference showed as the years themselves piled up. Now, that relationship is over and I'm ready for a change.

It's been several years. I am not in my 20s or early 30s, but pushing middle age, and even though most people still think I am in my 20s (a benefit to hitting puberty late), I definitely feel it. Older doesn't work for me now, and I'm ready for someone younger, possibly much younger.

I've always been drawn to women with very small chests. Truly the smaller, the better. I don't know what it is about them -- maybe because they're under-appreciated -- but tiny is elegant and sexy. I am also drawn to women who are natural subs or switches; as a switch myself, whether I want to give or take it is a vibe, and it's nice to have that with another person.

Personally, I am a writer who works in tech. I make more than a decent living and it's left me with a lot of free time to explore other avenues, maybe even other kinships. So, if any of that caught your attention, shoot me a DM.