😊👋Greetings Everyone!! Hope you are keeping well. I am currently a number of weeks from moving to Perth from Ireland. A big move, so I hope it all works out. FYI this is a long long post, so just a head's up, but I think it's worth a read if you have a few minutes, I've tried to make it entertaining and easy to follow.

What I hope you'll notice if I have written it well enough is the strong theme of dichotomy. My longing to combine two great areas in relationsips that I have struggled to find together. Wholesome love with hard kink. Please see link (insert link) In the past I've had both individually, or a small mix, but now I want to combine them for my perfect relationship.

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🗡️🤵ABOUT ME: M, 32, 6'3, lean build, brown hair, short red tinged beard. Happy to verify after a few messages. ISTJ, employed full time with stylish dress sense to match. I like to think I'm caring, noting the little details, easy to get on with and a great sense of humour, I would describe it as a mix of dry wit and well timed sarcasm. I'm confident, I stand up for and back my partner, I'm kind, when I see a cat I have to say, "ohh kitty". I'd like to get a cat or dog in the future. And despite what you might think when you read the nsfw bits later, quite liberal. Additional reasons to date me include: make a great plus one, happy to do activities, or be lazy. Both are great choices. But if I had to choose one, I would prefer the lazy cuddles. I so throughly enjoy lying up on the sofa cuddling and watching TV.

💛🎮I enjoy lots of things, but to name a few, I'm definitely a total nerd. I love Star Wars, LOTR, Warhammer, games - both video, board and roleplaying. I enjoy chilling while watching TV and movies. Lots of Youtube content, I have a premium subscription because I get a lot of my entertainment content on it. Standard Youtube now has so many ads I don't think I could go back, plus I like supporting the content creators, I enjoy a channel called Mystery Quest. I like a bit of outdoors stuff don't get me wrong, but if your idea of fun is a 5am run everyday, I can just tell you now that's a pass from me even though I do like to keep in shape. I feel like i'd like to get involved in a some new activities at some stage, such as scuba diving or yoga. And try and continue some of my existing sports like Karate🥋 and Fencing🤺

✈️🏖️Travel - COVID and the cost of living\ inflation crisis has really scuppered a lot of my plans over the last few years (and saving for a house deposit has been important too), but I'm getting back on track and managed to get to get a few trips to Europe this year. So would love a partner to join me. Probably a few trips in SE Asia given moving to Perth. A warning though, I take loads of photos to try and get a few gems, so you'll have to have patience for that.

🍸🍹I enjoy cocktails. What's your favourite cocktail? Mine's definitely a dark and stormy, but I'm really coming around to a mojito currently.

🧠🤔I'm self aware enough to bring to mind some of my own, not necessarily negative character traits, but certainly one's that others pick up on. I'm reserved and quiet at times, it's just me. Maybe I prefer to call it unintentional stocism. Trying to improve myself and deal with past issues, I had a course of counselling a while ago, I think it's worked and I've been able to let go of the past and increase my communication.

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ABOUT WHAT I'M SEEKING I'm in the position now were i'm seeking a long term, sex positive relationship with open communication and enjoyment of eachother's company. Heavy on both kink and nurturing love. To put it another way, I want my best friend who i'm wildly attracted to. Someone with who we can both be deeply vulnerable and open with eachother. Something were we both make eachother the best version of ourselves.

I'm about to start a new job in Perth, so there's going to be an adjustment period for everything for a few months. But I do have goals I want to achieve over the next few years. I want to buy a place around a year or so after arriving (allowing time for additional savings and scoping out the right starter property and neighbourhood - Aus property prices are insane). I'm not totally fixed on location, but, I may consider a regional town down south of Perth. I'm not sure, just some thoughts. I'm not even in the country yet, I may enjoy the city too much. Also, head on several more holidays in and out of the country, and around 5 years be moving towards marriage and potentially children.

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🫵👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨ABOUT YOU - Honestly, I'm a sucker for a smile and kind eyes looking up at me. So much so I had to look up features of the eyes to describe it. Such as limbal rings in the iris. It melts my heart. It's hard to put anything defining after that, but shyness with a spark of joy is also very endearing. And shorter, so they can stare lovingly up at me, but that's not hard at 6'3 lol. Up to 30 years old and located in Perth or surrounding areas, or very frequently in the area, I'm aware there is a lot of FIFO work in WA. (Potential for wider afield i.e all of Australia / global, but you must have already had an interest in moving to Australia or be able to relocate in short order, cause long distance isn't for me). No drugs please. Open to children. Similar interests and hobbies, and also your own ones that you are passionate about. Like do you get super hyped about drawing. Fuck yeah you do, show me that shit. That's awesome work sweetheart💖 Also, open to kinky interests, that's quite important, more details below. If you've never tried or are even just curious, please let me know. That reminds me of another point, I want to be a team, I want you to be my person and vice versa, making eachother happy and the world a better place for it. Also, if we're sleeping, you have to put your leg over mine so I can grab and hold on to it. Those are just the rules. Also also, I'm a relentless purveyor of kisses.

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That's about it for the SFW for work part, I'm sure I could add more, but don't want to tell you my whole life story, what would be left for you to be curious about. The next part is NSFW so be aware before continuing.

⛓️🍒NSFW - I'll try and keep the details brief as we can chat away about it when messaging, but obviously all my kinks and desires are to be acted upon from a bedrock of consent, respect and safety. Labels are hard but if I were to choose a specific theme to give you at least some idea what I'm about, probably a dom leaning on master, into a bit of sadism. I had loads of gear back home, but I'm going to be starting a fresh collection in Australia. So will probs be keeping it to the essentials initially that I found were the go to's. Some vibes, restraints, impact toys etc. I'm always happy to listen if there's something you want. So ideally you would be a sub with masochist leanings, with an interest in DDLG, devotion and service oriented submission (I adore getting home made meals and baked goods, I feel it's a great expression of love). A few specific kinks I will list that I thoroughly enjoy are deep throat \ throat fucking, choking and impact play, so expect those to feature frequently. I'm also interested in exploring and intensifying some kinks including orgasm control training, TPE and some other hard\ edge kinks that we can discuss in private. So if you want to feel protected and praised like the good girl you are, who just needs lots of hugs and headpats and compliments, then we're on the same page. A big fan of a forehead kiss. And you'll not be left wanting for \joy/ as I am happy to please. I think that's really key, you have to want to please your partner, and they you, so you can both teamwork it.

I also have a more complete kink list sheet that I'm happy to share in due course, it's one of those standard ones you find online, but I decided to zhuzh it up a little and add my own sections to it including some SFW parts. If you have suggestions I'm happy to hear them.

Cool, if you've made it this far, congrats, and I'm glad to have held your interest, now let me hold your hand! But seriously, if you're even considering messaging, I strongly encourage it. But! Do put some effort in, since you've taken the time to get invested. Hey's will be ignored. Tell me a bit about yourself, where ya from, what did you like most, what are your kinky interests, how old you are, maybe even a picture of you as attraction is important afterall.