(1st off, I'm located in Ahwatukee, the closer you are, the better).

Hi, Thanks for taking the time to click on my post.

I might as well start off by listing exactly what I'm looking for.
Then I'll touch on what I'm not looking for.
Then I'll go into some details about myself (so you can decide if I'm someone you would want to bother getting to know).

I'm basing my wants and needs on things I enjoyed about previous relationships.

Here we go,
I want someone to spend time with on the weekends and evenings.
I, myself, am not a home-body. I get out as often as I can,
but a big part of what I'm looking for, is someone to consume media with at home (Movies, TV, Music, possibly video games) (your home or mine).
I want someone to cuddle with while consuming this media (comfy clothes on, cozy, head scratches, shoulder rubs, hand holding, no further expectations on my part).

I'm not necessarily looking for a homebody/shut-in/Agoraphobic/Socially anxious person, but if you are... I can work around that, and bring the cuddles and media to you. Someone to cuddle and consume media with is my bare-minimum.
If that sounds good to you, you can basically skip the next part, and go straight to the "What I don't want", and "About me" section.

For everyone else that's made it this far...
I'd also like someone to go on "night drives" or road-trips with.
I wouldn't say that I have a wander-lust... nor a need to travel...
But there's something about driving around, listening to tunes, with someone I love in my passenger seat, with the windows down. The destination doesn't even matter. We could be headed to/from a small live-music event downtown. We could be driving home after seeing a movie in the theater.
We could be headed 20 minutes away to get snacks at the one late-night convenience store that's open at that hour... or we could just hop in the car on a weekend an hour before sunset, and drive to Tucson, or Pason, or Flagstaff for no reason other than the drive.

I just miss sharing a calming drive, into the sunset, with my navigator at my side, blasting tunes, telling stories... arriving, turning around, heading back with an ambient playlist on so my traveling buddy can drift off to sleep.

I also enjoy a trip out to the Roller Rink on 80s night, and 18 night for some Rollerblading. Trips to the museums and art galleries. Occasional trips out to Anaheim or LA to visit Disneyland, or to go to the beach.
I also enjoy Thrift shopping,
Record shopping,
Wandering aimlessly around The Mall,
Taking naps together,
Visiting escape rooms
Whatever you like... run it by me.

Ok, so those are things I need from a partner, and some bonus activities.

What I don't want:

I don't want a Trump Supporter.
As far as Religion is concerned, I am an Agnostic (former Christian),
And I have no issue with whatever religion you practice, whether it's Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Wiccan etc... Sadly, I consider support for Trump to be a form of Idolatry/Idol worship. It's an extreme that I cannot get behind.

I'm not looking to be the 3rd or 4th wheel in someone's Polycule.
I'm not looking to be with anyone who's married, or in a relationship already.
I'm also not looking for anyone that's looking to swing, or to open up our relationship (in the event that our relationship moves beyond the point of platonic cuddling, which I am open to, but also not in any kind of rush for).

I'm not into horror movies that feature excessive (non-comedic) Gore/Torture.
I'm not into reality TV (exceptions to this would be wholesome "Reality TV" like Ru Paul's Drag Race, Mythbusters, Great British Bake off etc...).

I'm not into cigarette smokers.
I gravitate towards women that are feminine in appearance/presentation?
(hair on the longer side, not afraid to apply makeup, etc...)

I'm not looking to have kids, nor to get involved with someone that has kids.
I'm in no rush to move-in together, nor to run off and get married.
I'm not afraid of commitment, not at all. I am a monogamist, and a loyal/faithful one at that. I just don't see a rush to get landlords, nor the government involved in our personal business.

About me:

Gen-X, Straight-Cis Male, 5'10, 155lbs, Caucasian, clean-cut brown/grey hair, blue eyes, grey/brown tidy beard (I am not overly attached to my facial hair, it's negotiable).

I am a t-shirt Dickies Pants Hoody kinda guy.

I am chill/laid-back, kind, respectful.
I have a punny/dry sense of humor (Like Mitch Headberg, Norm Macdonald).
I am an IT nerd by trade, a music geek by hobby.

I enjoy 80s Movies and Music, and 80/90s inspired Funk/Soul Synthpop/New Wave Techno/IDM/Acid, Surf, Synthwave.

Fave bands include:
Aphex Twin, Men I trust, Depeche Mode, Naked Eyes, The Beach Boys, Thundercat, BadBadNotGood, Hotel Pools, Ginger Root, The Human League, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, MxPx, Portishead, Sneaker Pimps, Nirvana, Weezer, VNV Nation, The Ventures, The Supremes, James Brown, Yaz, Kraftwerk

I like Sci-fi (robots/Ai, time travel, dystopian, dream exploration).

I am not the Jealous, Possessive, nor Obsessive type.
I am neither egotistical, demanding nor impatient.
I don't drink, (It's okay if you do).
I don't do drugs, (But I'm also not anti-drug, please party responsibly)
I am not a player (I don't even crush a lot).
I am honest, almost to a fault
(but not honest like "Does that offend you?, I'm just being honest."
Honest like, if there's a piece of upsetting news that could impact our dynamic, I'm not going to delay telling you, or keep secrets. I'll just tell you, because I would rather deal with the reality of the situation, than construct a complex web of lies that's bound to unravel at some point and cause way more pain in the long-run).
I'm easy to get rid of.
(Why would I want to force someone to engage with me that doesn't want to engage with me any more? That seems like more trouble than it's worth.

SFW pics available on request.
Locals only please. In-person (I am not looking for an online relationship).
I think that covers most of the juicy tidbits.
I look forward to hearing from you.