Hey there, I'm Peter and I'm trying to find my future partner. I'm not sure how many guys actually get responses to their posts on here, but I'm here to shoot my shot and find what I'm looking for for. If you are a frequent ghoster, kindly just keep moving on. I'm looking for maturity here, not someone who can't even say they aren't interested.

Ideally I'm trying to find another nerd, someone into gaming, going to conventions, reads fantasy or sci-fi books, basically someone that I could enjoy some of these things with. I'm also looking for someone who is communicative, and able to express their feelings. But I'm also looking for someone that is fairly health conscious, I'm getting older and I want to be able to keep up with my younger partner. Im handsome and funny, though it does take some time for me to warm up and feel out my audience. Also looking for someone who is nuerodivergent or at least understanding of it. There are some quirks that come with having ADHD, and finding someone understanding of that is important. I'll definitely take the time to answer questions and discuss it, so I'm I'm not asking you to go in blind. You don't need to check off all the boxes I'm listing, but really I'm looking for another nerd.

I also work in IT, it's been a recent transition into a new career that I've been enjoying. So I'm not really able to relocate currently, as my current job allows me to learn and grow.

I have a cat, so heads up in case you have allergies. But it's just the one pet, I don't have plans for more any time soon.

My stats: 41 Brown hair Blue eyes Bearded Tattoos 5'10" Dad bod/losing weight ADHD/nuero spicy Kink

Please don't send me just a "hey", please put thought into your response, and be ready to try and have a conversation. It's like pulling teeth to get an answer longer than 1 sentence out of some people on here.