At my job, I work with a lot of older men. I'm 26, and these men are 40 . I have a top manager position and I am able to work on my own at times and go sit, work, walk around, and be places where other managers are. Anyway, there is this one manager I am really attracted to. I'll be honest, I feel very flattered when he talks to me and gives me attention. But our conversations are usually about work, or just playful jokes. We get along pretty well as just being coworkers and keeping it cool......... but I will say,, he smiles huge when he sees me, he always asks me how I am, how my day is, makes the conversation all about me usually. He is very nice and always makes the convo like about me in a way.... He stares at me a lottttttttttttt, usually any chance he gets, even when we are in a group setting, he looks at me. We don't have much communication about feelings. It's just very casual conversation, but actions, looks, and vibes are more intense. It gives me some type of feeling like I just am very flattered. He gives me this look like his vibe is " Dominant " but only to me, I don't ever see him act that way to others. I think he likes my attention. But I'm just confused about why he doesn't say much to me, farther than casually....... it's like maybe 2% he jokes about things but that other 98% is casual..... I would love to see if I can take our conversations more, but I don't know how to feel confident enough to push that. (and I'm a confident, pretty, girl, nice body, very smart etc) I don't want to disrupt or cause any drama or whatever. But id like to see if he would talk to me in a more flirtatious way......... but idk if I should.... but wow being a young women I have this feeling that I want to just pursue more conversation. get to know him....................
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