About Me Hi there! I’m a 38-year-old with a big heart, a nurturing spirit, and a deep appreciation for meaningful connections. At my core, I’m someone who values kindness, understanding, and making my partner’s happiness a priority. People often describe me as a teddy bear—soft-hearted, loving, and supportive. I believe relationships thrive on mutual care, respect, and open communication.

I’m here looking for a long-term partner, someone who values deep connection and shared growth. Communication is essential to me, and I thrive in a relationship where we can talk openly and often.

What I’m Looking For At the core, I’m looking for someone who shares similar values and is interested in building a meaningful future together. Here’s what matters most to me:

• Constant Communication: Open, honest, and frequent conversations help build trust and connection.
• Long-Term Intentions: I’m looking for something lasting—not fleeting or temporary.
• Understanding of Demisexuality: For me, intimacy grows from emotional bonds. Building that connection may take a few weeks or longer, so patience and understanding are key.
• Future-Oriented: While a long-distance relationship is fine initially, my ultimate goal is to make it IRL. I’m willing to relocate or help my partner relocate.
• Supportive Dynamic: I want a relationship where we can uplift and prioritize each other as we navigate life together.

More About Me In my day-to-day life, I’m a blend of intellect and adventure. I hold a degree in robotics and have always had a love for technology, including retro gaming, modding consoles, and designing electronics. Outside of tech, I enjoy exploring the outdoors—hiking and inline skating are some of my favorite pastimes.

I also have a competitive streak. I was a speed skater who made it to nationals in my first year and fenced during college. Music is another passion of mine—my playlists range from EDM to metal and everything in between.

Having traveled extensively (all 50 U.S. states and 14 countries so far), I’m open to relocating for the right person (willing to relocate quickly for the right person). While I’m okay starting a relationship long-distance, I want to transition into an in-person connection hopefully sooner than later.

A Note on My Demisexuality I want to be upfront about this because it’s an important part of who I am. My sexual side takes time to develop as I get to know someone and feel that deep bond. This could take weeks or longer, depending on how our connection grows. I’ve found that being transparent about this helps set the right expectations and fosters better understanding.

Let’s Connect If you’ve read this far and feel like we might click, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s explore the possibility of building something meaningful and lasting together.