I'm looking for a monogamous, lifelong relationship with a good woman. A relationship that we work to make it the best it can be til we wave goodbye to this world. With this in mind, here are things I'm looking for and believe in:

• Attraction is important. You keep in shape, as I do, and we work to maintain that over the years and decades to the best of our ability and never let ourselves go. The body types I find attractive are petite/slender, athletic and toned, or average build but with a flat stomach.

• You're obedient/submissive. I believe the man should lead and the woman follow. I don't want a doormat. I want a first mate to my Captain. You should proactively share your thoughts, ideas and opinions and we'll discuss them, and if we're not on the same page, you support and follow the decisions I make and treat my word as law.

• You're respectful. This has many expressions, but one of which is that any disagreements/arguments are "behind closed doors" and private, never public. We never belittle each other in front of others, and should never be done privately for that matter, but instead, build each other up.

• You're very committed. This is a lifelong journey, not a blast out the starting gate, only to fade in time. You're a "ride or die" kinda girl, in this to the end, with a fiery devotion and loyalty to me and our relationship, as I am to you. We have each other's backs, all the time.

• Sex, when it happens (in an exclusive, lifelong, committed relationship) and with rare exceptions, should be frequent, enthusiastic and we always make ourselves available to the other. Think once a day or more rather than once a week.

• You put in the effort to have a great relationship, and you get the same in return from me.

• You're open and communicative, and have no problem saying what you want or need, or freely discussing a variety of topics. If you're more shy and reserved, you work on improving your communication skills.

• Speaking of, you believe in continual improvement, and work toward bettering yourself and not resting on your laurels. You apply this to yourself, our relationship and life in general. You can expect the same from my side.

• You’re mentally and emotionally healthy, as am I. You don’t bring tons of baggage into a new relationship. To put it in airplane terms, you can fit yours into the carry on bin, and it doesn’t need to be stored in the cargo hold.

• You're imperfect, as am I. You don't hold unreasonable or unattainable standards (in yourself, me or others), nor do you make excuses for things we can change for the better.

• We forgive when we mess up, and work to make things right.

• You're feminine, comforting, nurturing and encouraging. You're my biggest cheerleader. I'm your rock to lean on.

• You handle almost all domestic duties. I'll take care of the outdoor stuff. We pitch in and help each other as needed, but maintain distinct roles for the most part.

• Ideally, you'll be a full time stay at home wife (or maybe work part time) and you make me, our home and family your mission. If you want to work full time and pursue a career, I'd support you in that, but my preference is you staying home and running the household.

• And, of course, you're a Christian and take your faith seriously.

I offer the same or more in return, with the obvious exception of different roles and responsibilities within the home.

You're between 18 and 35, preferably.

Single, of course.

If long distance, we'll get to know each other and work something out to be closer in the months ahead.

If this sounds like you, send me a message, tell me about you and feel free to ask any questions you want and I'll take it from there!

Your pics get mine. Be ready to send pics earlier rather than later to gauge attraction.

A bit more about me: I’m confident, outgoing and driven. I have a great sense of humor and overall personality, I’m playful yet serious when necessary, educated, intelligent and witty, even modest to boot ;)

But don’t just take my word for it, find out for yourself!

To discovering more about each other!