So considering I can't edit my original post I figured I'd post another and be more detailed. OK so not really Hartford but closer to the MA/RI border in the corner of CT. It's always been an imbalance; I either click with someone on the personal level but not sexual or vice versa. Still looking for that complete package * 5'7 fairly athletic. Super bonus if you run, cycle, swim do athletic events, etc. I'm always looking for a running and cycling/fitness partner. Was super fit 3 years ago but gained some and getting back into the swing of it all * Into the outdoors, hiking, exploring. Finding those weird nooks and crannies in small towns, back roads and cities. *Somewhat nerdy, Sci fi, horror but my range of music and movies is vast. Let's introduce each other to new music and movies! *Fall is my favorite season. The vibrant colors above, around and below our feet crunching as we walk, the crisp air, hot chocolate and walks and cuddles. *Can be somewhat shy until we click or can be a chatterbox if we really click *Quirky somewhat dark sense of humor that usually doesn't come out until we get to know each other *Someone who accepts my quirkiness and weirdness and matches it *Cuddling and touch are very important to me *Divorced no kids *Looking for exclusive fwb or hopefully that deep passionate forever connection where there's always a flurry of butterflies between us, that nervous electricity, a flame that never dies always igniting when we look at each other *I work a LOT which tends to turn off most woman so be forewarned *Love a young woman that can swing from passionate slow love making to being a sub into being treated rough *Race doesn't matter but please be active. Nothing against overweight at all, trust me I fought obesity and was once over 210 but need someone who can keep up. *I can provide recent papers proving to be clean I don't use condoms, sorry I don't but I've also had a vasectomy *Love going down on a woman so please be clean *If you're attached that's fine can be discreet but ultimately looking for long term *Public meeting first, prefer a coffee house *No smoking or drugs, weeds OK but I don't do it personally. I've left all that behind and still drink but rarely. If you've made it this far then congratulations! While I don't have cake for you I'd still like to talk and hopefully not get ghosted 🤣