Hello! I'm a 33-year-old native San Diegan with a doctorate in Pharmacology and over 10 years experience in BDSM. I believe in embracing life's simple pleasures and savoring the beauty of the everyday and trying to make the best out of every situation. If you're looking for a genuine connection and relationship with BDSM-centered themes, then hopefully I'm the one. In a potential partner, I aspire to be more than just a companion—I aim to be a steadfast supporter and emotionally available confidant. I love helping subs discover and achieve their highest potential, whether through encouraging pursuits, being a listening ear during challenging times, or celebrating successes with genuine pride.

About me: I'm passionate about my work in Pharmacy, but I also value work-life balance. Standing 6’1” and solidly built with a bit of a dadbod, I'm a homebody but I also love to enjoy the beaches of San Diego or taking leisurely strolls in Balboa Park. My friends describe me as caring and genuinely kind, always ready to lend a hand or a listening ear whenever needed. A scientist at heart, I love trying new recipes in the kitchen and DIY projects. I'm always eager to explore and grow as a person, constantly seeking new experiences and perspectives to enrich my life thru reading, travel, and learning. I love making people laugh and trying to help others.

What I'm looking for: I'm hoping to find a partner who can grow alongside me, someone local to San Diego, and making lasting memories in a BDSM-centered relationship. I don't like wasting peoples time and ask the same. If you value authenticity, have a good sense of humor, and want an emotionally mature Dom that you can grow with (based on similar dom posts, I seem to be a unicorn in that regard), we might just click. If any of this resonates with you, drop me a message, and hopefully we both find what we're lucking for. I do ask that you include your favorite color in your message. Thank you for reading.

Kinks: I am open to exploring almost all kinks but the ones I'm most experienced and enjoy are; Bondage, Petplay, Hypno, CNC, Impact Play, TPE, Degradation, Praise, Orgasm Control, Denial, Overstim, Hair Pulling, DDLG. Limits: Bodily fluid, anything illegal, and permanent harm