Well first off, what does any of that mean?

"Aegosexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum in which one experiences a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. They may feel sexual attraction, but have little or desire to participate in sexual activities with another person."

"Stag and Vixen is a form of ethical non-monogamy; much like with cuckolding, the basic idea is one partner (the vixen) has sex with other people while their partner (the stag) watches. Unlike cuckolding, there isn’t an element of humiliation for the partner who’s watching. The thrill derives both from watching their partner have sex with someone else (voyeurism) but also knowing that their partner is hot and other folks want to bang ’em too. Similarly, the vixen both enjoys being watched (exhibitionism) and the novelty of new partners, etc."

If you're still reading, what all of that means is that I am looking for an eager and consenting partner to explore a long-distance ethically non-monogamous relationship with an emphasis on the appreciation of her beauty and celebration of her sexuality, a partner who loves to be shared and to share her experiences. A voyeur looking for an exhibitionist, in more blunt terms.

Of course, I also want to find a real relationship based around mutual interest, shared respect, open communication, and shared hobbies rather that one solely built on sex, but I figure that what I am looking for in that realm is so specific that I should lead with it to save everyone some time.

About me, I am a 33-year-old work from home freelance writer in the NSFW space. I primarily work directly with clients one-on-one to write short stories for them but I do have experience working in the indie adult gaming and comics scenes as well as a stint doing political/marketing articles for a non-profit. I take care of myself and have decent savings but I do not lead a glamorous life - more of a struggling artist type, really.

My hobbies are generally nerdy in nature - I got into gaming at a young age and find it hugely important in my life. I am not a stereotypical lazy gamer who will ignore you for another round of this or that, but games provide me with new worlds, new stories, and new challenges to explore and I love to talk about them! Other than that, I enjoy and collect board games, have a long history with tabletop role-playing, enjoy cooking for myself and others, listening to eclectic music while taking long walks, and of course more. What are some of your favorite hobbies?

I would consider myself to be chill and down-to-earth, generally a comfortable bug/homebody hermit type. I've always described myself as someone who does not like people but loves persons. Classically introverted, I also struggle with ADHD as an adult and although I manage it well and am not looking for a caretaker, I would hope that you are able to understand the subtle ways that can affect someone's life.

I'm posting on hear in the hopes of catching someone's interest and starting a friends-first connection based around online texting before we both feel comfortable moving to voice calls and beyond. I'm a fairly responsive texter myself but I don't put any pressure on people to respond within a certain timeframe or anything. Distance is no issue to me, and given what I mentioned at the top of the post I wouldn't be expecting you to live without physical affection either way, haha.

About you, I would hope you are around my age or younger, bright and clever, self-respecting (even if it is a struggle sometimes), nerdy or tolerant thereof, and anywhere between petite and fit. It would be nice to know what you like and I'm happy to return the favor (spoiler: I'm just, like, a white guy with a lot of hair on his face and head).

If you feel like messaging, why don't you tell me a bit about yourself, what caught your eye with the post, and how you feel about the upcoming holidays and new year?

Cheers and thanks for reading!