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If you voted red, don’t bother responding. I don’t care how good you may look.

Simple responses just saying things like ‘hey’ will be ignored. Read this entire post, and if you’re interested, show me so by responding as instructed. But don’t respond unless you want to do what you’re told, or want to learn how to do so.

I’m a SWM (no kids) in Ventura, 6’2, 195, 8”, D/D-free, non-smoking, well-read and very intelligent, easy-going and easy to talk to, naturally athletic, broad-shouldered and muscular with a tapered-V physique and an intimidating physical presence, charismatic and self-aware, patient, completely at ease and sure of myself.

I’m an assertive, strict and commanding, naturally Dominant Master looking for a submissive woman (mid-20s to mid-40s) for a monogamous - I’m a one-woman guy - relationship. You’d be My Personal Whore and FuckDoll, and your body would become My Personal Sexual Property. You’d be trained to know your place, and you’d be regularly reminded - often forcefully - of what your place entails. You would not at all be expected to be doing everything perfectly, and I’ll guide and mentor you. You’ll be thoroughly trained, and you’d be regularly praised as a Good Girl for your efforts. This will be out of your comfort zone, and it will intimidate you and make you nervous. But life is short, and we only get one of them. So don’t be afraid to be bold and do what really excites you.

I like good-looking, eye-catching, feminine women. Women who take care of themselves and their body. Women who get leered at and hit on. I like maturity and intelligence. I do like the classy bimbo look but have no interest in airheads or party girls.

I’m not into BBWs or bratty types, and any kind of smoking or vaping, including 420, is a dealbreaker. I don’t care how hot you may be, it’s just disgusting. I’m not ever interested in talking politics except to say that I’m very definitely Pro-Choice.

At the same time I’m holding doors open for you, there would be misogynistic elements involved. I’m a demanding Master. I’d be controlling you to a great extent, having you customize your appearance per my command - growing your hair out and always doing your lips and nails how I want them done. You’d be made to keep yourself fit and your body nice and eye-catching. To always keep your Master appraised of what you’re doing whether I’m responding or not, accountable to me at all times, and you’d be made to send me frequent selfies showing me how you’re looking and what you’re wearing as you go about your days, always striving to please your Master by showing him the face and body that you want to serve him with.

And while there would be expectations of you, immediacy wouldn’t be one of them. I don’t need instant gratification, and I’m not into casual hookups.

Sexually, I’m very rough, forceful, and vulgar. I overpower and manhandle. I forcefully put you into whatever position I want you in. I grab and pull hair. I grip and squeeze flesh. I lightly slap your pretty, made-up face, with my hands and my cock. I spank. I growl into your ear and call you all sorts of things. I talk very dirty throughout and make you reciprocate the vulgarity.

I’m not into anything that could be considered hardcore or extreme BDSM. I don’t have a ‘dungeon’, and I’m very definitely not into piss, scat, caning, or anything like that. I’d never expect you to do anything you may be the least bit uncomfortable with.

More about all of this can be discussed in chat, and you can always ask about anything you’re curious about or the least bit unsure about. I’ll always make sure you know that you can be as completely open and honest as you can be with me, even if you think I may not like what you say. As long as you’re being completely open, I’d never be disappointed in anything you’d say.

No experience is necessary. In fact, I actually prefer someone who’s never done this sort of thing before. In my extensive experience with women, the ones who have done this before tend to come into it with their own preconceived notions based on their previous relationships, and not only do I not like that, but it’s more interesting to me to train and mentor someone who’s brand new to this and who is doing something that’s far out of their comfort zone.

I play baseball on weekends in adult leagues - baseball, not softball - and you’d come to as many of my games and tournaments as you could. On Saturdays I play in either the Long Beach/Downey area or the Los Angeles area. On Sundays it’s always in the LA area.

If you’re interested, describe yourself physically and tell me what turned you on and made you want to respond. Be bold and expressive. Impress me with your wantonness. If you’re going to send pics, DO NOT SEND ANYTHING NAKED. Just normal pics, but you want me to find you attractive, so show me your face and body.

If I’m interested, I’ll take it from there. If I’m not, I’ll let you know. I wouldn’t just ghost you.

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