If you are fond of DD/lg-based relationships or intrigued by the dynamic but lacking experience, give this post a read…I’m poised to make one special lady exceedingly happy and satisfied in every sense of the word. I love a good age gap; said fondness may be genetic given I’m the offspring of a 30 year (!) age gap haha.

Hello there I’m Nick…a 45 year old empty-nester from Wisconsin; 6 feet tall and 190lbs (HWP). Couple of accurate pics on my profile and am happy to share more early on in our chats. Gotta be upfront that my endgame is an IRL relationship and that I’m beholden to remaining in Wisconsin. However, I’m very open to relocating within the state when a relationship progresses to living together, and would be open to an LDR (with regular visits) with the right person working towards that common goal. Additional incompatibilities beyond online-only include: 

• ENM/Poly: I don’t mean to yuck anyone’s yum, I’m simply not built that way. 
• Wanting children: If you HAVE them that’s fine, but I’m all done.
• Sobriety: I admire the hell out of sober people; even if I dunno how anyone can raw dog this timeline. But I enjoy a good cocktail at times, am exceedingly 420 friendly, and I wish to share both traits with my partner.  
• Unaffectionate/asexual: If you’re more aloof with your affection or have a lower libido we wouldn’t work…I’m a hopeless romantic whose love languages are physical touch and quality time. 
• Chat-seekers: I always struggle with the label, what I mean is those who connect to discuss kinks but are seeking a transient connection (often ghosting within a day or days). If that’s your style I’d implore you to please pass me by, maybe try an “online only” post…those discussions exhaust me because I am seeking so much more than just spicy chat. 

That’s it for dealbreakers. Ideally you’d be 21-35 and I don’t have a set type either, attraction must exist but it comes in many forms. Petite ladies are easier to manhandle, yet I adore curves and play well with them. I’ve dated many different ethnicities so I am not picky when it comes to your race. For me it’s all about the vibes once baseline attraction is established; I love banter, free-flowing conversations and inside jokes. 

I’ve laid out enough of what I’m looking FOR, now it’s time to share what I bring to the table. I’m kind, honest, chill, loyal, fun, romantic, and so much more…I’ve done extensive self-work and am proud of the results. I work from home with a small circle, so I’ve got ample time to devote to building something amazing with someone special. Once we’ve started vibing, clinginess is not only welcome but encouraged…I’m out here looking for that lover/Daddy&little/best friend chemistry all in one person and I will find it. :) 

As mentioned I partake of the devil’s lettuce (pretty much daily) and want my little to be an enthusiast too…nothing better than catching one together and vibing. When it comes to winter I hibernate; great time to catch up on shows/movies, reading, gaming, and cooking projects. I’m always game to grab a meal or drink out though! It’d be cool if gaming was a shared hobby, I own all three current gen consoles…if it wasn’t, please know it would be reserved for time apart or doing our own thing. In other words, I’d never allow some damn pixels to usurp my special girl. 

In the summer on, in or near the water is my happy place…I love fishing, swimming, kayaking, and tubing rivers. Other hobbies include hiking/walking (exploring state parks), cooking, gardening if I’m able, bar games, farmer’s markets, festivals, stand-up, live music and more….just getting out and living life, you know? It’s my opinion the “who” matters more than the “what” when it comes to getting out and doing stuff (i.e. the right company makes anything fun). Since I’ve mentioned cooking a couple times, just know I’m a strong home cook who shows love in the kitchen…I WILL make you homemade soup when you’re sick (sounds like a threat lmaooo). 

When it comes to kinks; I’ve got very few limits. Scat, blood, puke and involving other men are all I’ve discovered. Since I’m unable to share, know that in the interest of fairness I’ll NEVER ask to be shared. I love sensory play, overstimluation, restraints, breathplay, spanking implements like paddles, flogs and crops, anal including giving oral, hair-pulling and slapping (tits and pussy generally, open to discussion), creampies, CNC, toys and so much more. EDGIES are something I thoroughly love and am very adept at. I enjoy giving praise and affection; I’m a fantastic kisser who loves PDA’s. And yet I also have a sadistic streak, so it’d be best if you had a versatile appetite as well.  

I’m going to close with something different...I’m going to describe what sounds like an ideal yet basic day (meaning something that would be thoroughly terrific, yet doable regularly); if it and the overall post resonate I’d love to chat. 

Just Another Day with Daddy

You’re sleeping soundly all cuddled up and cozy in an oversized T-shirt, when you start to notice something working its way up your leg. Feeling slight moisture and warm breath, you realize Daddy is kissing and licking his way up your legs. “Princess…time to rise and shine, babygirl.” says the disembodied voice from beneath the covers. You begin to answer but it trails off into a slight moan, as my tongue begins to slowly lap at your sweet center. You can sense my smile as I lick faster and slide a finger into your tight wetness. I slurp your clit into my mouth, finger working more swiftly as my tongue swirls around in that way you like.

“Mmmm, you taste so good sweetness” I murmur as you begin to work your hips against my mouth. Feeling the tremble in your legs I begin to go faster, imploring you to cum on Daddy’s tongue…finally you let go, loud moans accompanying the juices flowing down into Daddy’s beard. I kiss your pussy and then raise up, smiling at you before kissing you deeply and saying “Good morning sunshine”. I then sneak out and return with a breakfast tray for you, along with a plate for myself so we can eat together. You thank me sweetly and profess concern that Daddy didn’t cum, I smile and assure you I’ll get mine before our day goes too much further. 

We eat breakfast together, talking excitedly about the day ahead as well as the week we’ve had. Once we’re done we put our dishes in the sink, then begin to get ready for our day. You bend over the bed naked to tease Daddy, only to be surprised as I hold you in place with a hand on your back, the other sliding two fingers into you from behind. “You didn’t think I could let that pass, did you little one?” I whisper, before whipping my cock out and sliding it in slowly from behind. You instantly begin working back onto it sensually as we fuck with long, slow strokes…balls slapping your still swollen clit as your juices flow down my shaft, while I spank your ass pink. I grab a handful of your hair and pull you back into a kiss, fucking harder and faster before exploding deep inside of you, filling you up before we go shopping.

You get dressed in what you know is one of my favorite outfits, beam widely when I compliment you on it; then after forehead kisses and hugs we head out to the store to buy ingredients for making Christmas cookies. “I’m so excited to begin these traditions together” I say, and you respond with heartfelt enthusiasm at the thought. We shop leisurely; comparing ingredients, having playful banter, holding hands and just generally being that couple that makes other couples jealous. Once our cart is full we load up and head back to our place to get ready for baking cookies. 

The butter and eggs need time to get to room temp; what better way to pass the time than catch a buzz together? So we get stoned while we chat, enjoying the awesome company and plotting our course for our afternoon of baking. We start making out with your head in my lap, looking into each others’ eyes…my hand begins to caress its way up your leg, causing you to shiver as our tongues dance. I begin doing that thing with my fingers that gets you there quickly, teasing you with my kisses as I feel your orgasm build. Looking down at your eyes closed in bliss and realizing how close you are, I switch up my motion entirely…you continue for a few moments, then blink up confusedly into my eyes as I smirk down lovingly at you and mouth the word “edgies” at you. “Let’s bake cookies, Princess!” I say with a chuckle as you attempt to regain composure.

We have a wonderful afternoon together, baking up several varieties of cookies. Holiday music, candles going, just warm cozy vibes and good times shared by an amazing couple. Playful tutorials from behind, a swipe of frosting on someone’s neck and teamwork making the dream work. Did I mention matching PJ’s? Definitely a necessity hehe….

“Let’s hit the showers baby, Daddy’s taking you out.” I say as I separate out of a hug between us. I lead you to the shower, warm it up for us and proceed to wash you from head to toe, sharing some deep kisses in the warm water. After we dry off you catch me (playfully) lecherously staring several times as you get dressed, with your reaction either being to blow a kiss or give Daddy a little teasing dance. We get ready around one another in the way couples do; then head out for an evening full of flirty fun, a fantastic meal with cocktails, and live music.

 \This post ballooned on me so I cut the evening description short….suffice to say we’d have all kinds of fun and end up falling asleep spooning, after a passion-fueled kink session delivered multiple orgasms. Again, if this resonates I’d love to have a conversation, and if not best of luck in your search - (know that if this post is up I’m still looking).*