Disclaimer-I am plus size and though I’m actively working on losing weight, I would like someone who is okay with that. I know it’s not for everyone and that’s fine, I just want someone who’ll think I’m beautiful no matter what.

I’m looking for someone who:

-Is committed, reliable, and supportive in every way -Values me and is worthy of my submission -Is respectful and not abusive -Understands that I’m only open to dating with intention of pursuing a long term relationship -Provides for me because he genuinely wants and is happy to .If you believe that the only way you should provide for me is if I wear your last name, I’m not the one for you. If I’m doing things that are seen as “wifely duties" (cooking, cleaning, laundry, submitting,caring for you and your household,etc.) for you outside of marriage, I expect you to do the same. -Is financially stable. You don’t have to be rich but I know what type of life I would like to live and I want to be with someone who can help me to build and maintain that lifestyle. I’m not a gold-digger, but I do like to be taken care of -Understands that being the provider does not give you the right to be a neglectful spouse!This is very important to me, because this is still a relationship at the end of the day and it still requires love, work, effort and understanding. -Is a gentle leader. I love a man that is structured and has reasonable rules. I want someone that can guide me in the ways to make and keep him happy, in bettering myself and our relationship, while still acknowledging that I am still a person that has needs, wants, areas I may need support in, and free will -Is okay with me having a job if I choose to and it doesn’t interfere with me submitting to/taking care of him. I don’t want to have to work, but I do have passions that I like to pursue and I want someone that’s fine with that. -Takes the time and effort to sit down and solve problems instead of constant arguments or avoidance. Relationships are very rarely perfect -Works to make each other happy and comfortable at all times while I do the same Plans dates, gives thoughtful gifts, opens doors, gives me his jacket when it’s cold,etc. -Is fine with me doing nice things for him as well.Some man are so prideful that they can’t stand the thought of a woman doing anything to make them happy, I want to make your day better as well! -I want someone that looks at me like I’m the most beautiful person they’ve ever seen and like I’m the light of their life through all of our stages. -Is fine with my kinkiness and conscious of my sexual needs.I’m very sexual and have a lot of kinks,some on the extreme side.I want someone who is comfortable with this and who is compatible with me sexually. -Is okay with moderately cleaning up after himself. I’m fine with the general household cleaning, but I’m not a slave and refuse to date a lazy man child.You have to at least be willing to taking out the trash, clean the toilet when you use it and repair things around the house (or find someone who can). -is fine with me being a Christian. I’m open to people of any religion (or no religion), as long as you are comfortable with me maintaining my own and are respectful of it.

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