I am a sapiosexual first and foremost. Physical attraction is good, but I don't hold unrealistic standards of beauty. In fact, for being a Dom I still believe woman deserve empowerment and equality, outside of the bedroom.

I have two asks, I love age gap dynamics so please don't be around my age. Also, you don't have to workout all the time, but being hwp is simply heathier for you physically and mentally. I guess that's three asks, because I need an intelligent partner.

I am a playful but stern Dom. I know a lot, including how to hit a sub's buttons... or pleasure points. Using a horse crop after edging a sub is always sadistically satisfying. Maybe orgasm denial, to make her earn release only with my permission. I like toys, but also like free use. There's not always going to be something off hand when my desire to take you impulsively happens.

I have a lot of kinks, and up to explore more with an eager pet. I'm not going to list all of them. Ask me, tell me what you want. Let's see if we are aligned in the possible dynamic.

A little about me. I hold two degrees in physics and cybersecurity. I've worked remote for six years now. I actually picked up seasonal retail just to get out of the house! The best part of the retail gig is that I honestly don't care about it and refuse all the normal pushy sales tactics.

Ok, job talk is out of the way. Want to know some of my hobbies? I like to write short stories and poetry. I game on occasion. Binge watch shows on Netflix, but I don't watch a lot of TV. Music is a bigger part of my life. My taste is very eclectic.

Sounds like typical shut-in activities. I can't stand that. I'm an adrenaline junkie. I've raced cars all my life (not nascar) and have earned a few championships along the way. Yet, I am a humble person and don't like to brag about how good I am ;)

My alma mater is in a valley and downhill Mnt. biking was crazy fast and fun. I also cut my teeth a car driving on the limit up there. Sometimes over the limit but I had a positive reputation. There's even a weird story about giggling girls and a note on my car.

Also in uni I played collegiate paintball and did some sharpshooting. My RA was a legit Navy Seal, not stolen valor like so many. He had proof. Anyway, he taught our hall BUDS and a lot of guys were dropping out. It's what makes a seal, not just swimming laps or going for a jog. But it was so worth it when we started to do crazy things. We jumped off the main bridge in the valley and had to discreetly swim away from the cops waiting for us.

So I won't drown, but I did perforate my eardrum. I hit the froth of a waterfall from a 100' cliff overlooking it. With little surface tension I went very deep into the dark, cold waters. Still I never hit rock bottom! The stream in the tiny canyon was very deep. It happened so fast I didn't equalize the pressure in time. I felt the pop.

Then I drove a long way to the nearest hospital listing about from a lack of balance between my ears. They insisted I was tripping because I had a mushroom on my hat. I told them that when you trip recently it's not going to do much. Probably the wrong thing to say.

Now shrooms are decriminalized in Ann Arbor to the point there is a website that delivers. I had a guy meet me in his white Camaro with purple cow spots. Apparently discretion is not required.

I've been over exuberant writing all this. I have led a very unusual and adventurous life. Sometimes I color outside of the rules.

One last important thing. I don't have kids and don't want any. I was snipped in my thirties and I don't want to start a family. Dating single moms is not a good idea for me.

Please be available to chat daily and willing to travel. You don't have to be close, just be able to come to me if we develop a D/s dynamic.

I posted this in r/bdsm yesterday with my chat and messages off. I fixed the peback issue.

I better stop before I break something else. Please tell me a bit about yourself. Also the question, "Why do you like older men?"

I look forward to your answer.