25f, enquiring as to who is out there potentially searching for a long term relationship with a younger woman…

Important note: please actually take a few moments to read and digest what I’ve written before diving straight into a message. Also, if you’re looking for just sex, nsa, ons or a fuck buddy - keep scrolling because you won’t find it here.

Maybe it’s the long dark nights or maybe I’m starting to miss having someone to share small intimate moments with, either way I’m taking a chance with a personal add just to see if there’s some nicer conversationalists than those I’ve encountered on the dating apps I’ve long since abandoned. I’ll start with what I’m looking for and then tell you a little about myself, that way I’ll save you some time if you’re looking for something different.

Someone who is: - Open to new experiences and adventures - Knowledgable: I love interesting and enthusiastic conversations about a wide array of topics - Has a leaning towards a nurturing/mentorship role within a relationship - Liberal/left leaning; anyone who identifies as anything ‘right’ or ‘conservative’, I’m sorry but we have fundamental differences of opinions and attitudes towards other human beings and there are topics I refuse to ‘agree to disagree’ on. - Looking for something that’s long term but relaxed, with the assumption that in the future a family will be discussed and not necessarily a biologically related one. - Active and looking after themselves. I love sofa cuddles watching deep films or curled up and reading together but I want to be able to climb mountains and swim in the wilderness together on the weekends! - Not necessarily a deal breaker but I absolutely love a tall man who I have to tilt my head all the way back to look up at properly. I’m also only 5’1 so the taller you are the more it emphasises the power dynamic when it comes to the fun stuff… - Someone who’s happy with a relatively equal power split when it comes to day-to-day life, but loves a subby partner in the bedroom. - What is a deal breaker is dogs: I come with a four legged companion and would love to have more than one in future. If you don’t love dogs, I’m not for you.

So as promised, a little about me:

• Professional: I’m fortunate to be in a skilled career I love with lots of potential for future progression. My work is so important to me and is also a special interest of mine.
• Speaking of special interests: I am 100% neurodivergent being flagged for both ADHD and Autism. My other special interests include plants and science, be prepared for lots of interesting facts and long passionate ramblings about the above!
• I love being outdoors and exploring the countryside. Especially in areas that have bodies of water. Would love a beach trip somewhere I can go fossil hunting and peering into rock pools studying interesting macro algae. Feel free to join me or relax on a sun lounger watching me bend over!
• If you haven’t picked up on it by now, I am a big big dork, also very happy with my adorable dorkiness.
• While I often struggle to believe or acknowledge it, I understand I’m very fortunate and grateful to be described as pretty and attractive, I like to think of myself as cute or sweet, as while I’m happy with how I look, I describe this more as a neutrality posture rather than oozing confidence.
• I can be somewhat shy and introverted, I such at small talk, but get me talking about something we’re passionate about you’ll never shut me up.
• Outwardly, I’m rather put together and well-kept, although my style incorporates some vintage and alternative accents. This does include tattoos and piercings but both are understated and if not wholly concealable are delicate/subtle where showing. I told you I have a professional job role and I present as such. This also includes nice spectacles!
• Kink: yes! This year I finally jumped in fully after always having a curiosity/interest as long as I’ve been aware of sex, and holy hell did I realise I had been missing out on what a wonderful community there is out there and how much there is to try and explore.

Thank you for getting this far I know that was a lot, I mentioned neurodivergent right? I can get a bit carried away when I get stuck into something. If you’re still interested after reading all of that and fancy getting to know each other a little more, kind messages are welcome thank you, and if things go well I’m more than happy to exchange vanilla pics and see where the conversation takes us.