Hello,

I’m looking for someone who is committed to a 24/7 Total Power Exchange dynamic. My ideal partner would be someone who takes on the title of Master, though I do have some interest in DDLG, but it would take time to develop. I want a Master who is both strict and loving, someone who can balance discipline with care and nurturing. I also understand that sadism is a key element of this dynamic, but above all, I want a real connection outside of the power exchange itself. I am experienced in this lifestyle.

To be clear, I am not someone who needs to be rescued or constantly cared for. I’m a driven, successful student with a job, but I’ve recently started questioning whether this lifestyle is actually unhealthy for me. I’ve realized that I’ve been stuck in some negative patterns, which is why I’ve decided to reach out here instead of staying in a cycle of frustration.

A few things to know about me:

I believe in being upfront, so I’ll be honest here. Some of my qualities are helpful, but they can also have their downsides. I can be possessive, unforgiving (once someone is out of my life, they’re out for good), self-reflective, and struggle with OCD and anxiety. I hope this doesn’t turn you away, but I think it’s important to be transparent.

I don’t smoke, do drugs, or have any major vices. I occasionally drink wine with meals, but that’s it.

I’m open to relocating, and in fact, I want to move. However, this will initially be a long-distance dynamic, as I have obligations where I am now.

While I’m not religious, I have a strong moral code, which some might mistake as religious. I lean towards conservative values, particularly when it comes to politics.

I have two cats, and I’d like to discuss the possibility of them relocating with me if and when that time comes.

These are my non-negotiables:

Limits: No body modification (tattoos, piercings), no pet play, no scat, no vomit, and no needles. Also, I prefer that you be at least 35 years old.

I’m from a very rural area, and my interest in homesteading is more than just a passing fantasy. Outside of that, I enjoy movies, occasionally video games, gardening, animals, DIY projects, home decor, and I’m passionate about cooking (and I’m really good at it). I also listen to a lot of metal music.

Physically, I’m a brunette with blue eyes, pale skin. I’m about 5’4” and weigh around 105 pounds. I tend to come off as serious or reserved at first, but I have a playful side once I feel comfortable. I’ve been told I seem neurodivergent, and I don’t always open up right away. I need someone who can take the lead in conversations early on and ask the questions that help me feel at ease. I don’t want there to be any demands early on. If I like you, I’ll let you know. I’m hard to read.

That’s about it for now. If you reach out, please be clear about what you’re looking for and don’t hesitate to ask any questions. I’d like to know what I should expect from you as well.

Thank you for reading.