So... First things first, I have been an actual step father before, nothing happened between us but we grew a little too close for comfort and things were really awkward before the end. Unfortunately for me I'm hooked on that dynamic and want to relive it again someday.

I'm looking for a girl young enough to be my stepdaughter. I want to essentially roleplay as your step dad who had to move away/divorce your mom but still keeps in touch with you because although you can never get me to admit it, I'm obsessed with you. I want to keep things wholesome and sfw on the surface and just be a warm, loving, supportive father figure who at first just seems a little bit too invested in you but as soon as you dig a little deeper is obviously attracted to you and probably fantasizes about you.

I'd like to start out online, as if I had to move away after the divorce. Just talking about your day to day and getting to know you, occasionally asking for/saying questionable things for a step dad and have you generally just act like you love the attention and either give me the benefit of the doubt when it comes to me being a creep, or are secretly into it/want to take things further.

Eventually, once we have a good relationship established and are comfortable with this dynamic I'd like to fly out and visit you and spend the day with you as your estranged step daddy. Our "first date" will appear as if I'm just spoiling you and showing you a good time because I miss you but deep down we both know what's really going on and keep tiptoeing around the fact that we are both a little too invested/attracted to each other. Maybe we give in to our urges and get a hotel room for the night, or we keep things PG and constantly wonder what could have happened when I fly back home. I'd like to visit you a few more times after that initial meeting and make it a semi regular thing for me to drop by and check up on you.

My long term goal is for you to move in with me and live as my step daughter full time while we dance around the fact that I'm a creep for being into you, and you probably shouldn't like it as much as you do. When we go out I want it to be as a step father and his daughter with no hint of just being a normal couple. I want to get weird looks, and feel like I'm doing something wrong. I want you to have fun teasing and tempting me and I would love to be flustered and feel guilty. When we are alone or in the bedroom, I'd love to feel conflicted and perverted like I'm committing some great sin by wanting you sexually.

I live in southern California but I'm looking for nationwide, you don't have to relocate anytime soon but realize the end goal is a live in situation where you move in with me.

I'm very flexible with how this dynamic will play out but I REALLY want to be tempted/teased while feeling like I'm a creep for being into it.