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First of all, this is something that would take time. I won't take someone in unless there's a bond of trust and full communication. BDSM is very intimate and precious to me, as is the submission given, so I consider myself very picky for a reason. I think a bond of trust has to be stabilished and, needs and expectations, have to be fulfilled bidirectionally so please, if you are going to try to bend me against my will to become what you are looking for, look somewhere else. I want to work together on meeting expectations from both sides and I expect to find someone that wants the same. If this is clear, then we can proceed!

About me:

I consider myself attractive. I look younger than my age. Dark hair, dark eyes and just slightly darker skin due to a mix of bloods (caucasian, latina, asian). Average body, not muscular, not fat, definitely not skinny. Experienced Dominant and Master. Started reading about BDSM as a minor (16yo) and knew this was for me. Did my research, read a lot and when I turned 18 started going to munches and hanging out with my local BDSM scene. Learnt a lot about it and, after 21 years, I consider myself pretty experienced kink-wise. I have plenty of people around me that are my support network. I have plenty of people that I can go to if I ever need something as well. I am also pretty popular on other social networks and have references I can share once a trust bond is stabilished. I have one fulltime slave, serving me for a while and another submissive that is serving me temporarily but that fact might change.

Like I said before, I am picky and looking for a specific dynamic and a connection but if you are an overly jealous person and you wouldn't be able to deal with a dynamic where you have to work with other submissives, this isn't for you. If you are, though, keep reading! We will tackle what I am looking for a bit below.

About what I like: I love videogames, computers in general and I enjoy movies/series. I love listening to music and partying when the time is right. I like singing so I will likely take you to a karaoke one day. I like going on little trips, doing things together with my slaves and I totally enjoy getting to meet new people in general (munches, events, online...). I consider myself an ambivert so I will have times where I want to be at home and not go out a lot and times when I will want to party every weekend. You won't have to keep up though, don't worry.

My kinks include a wide array of fetishes I developed over the years which makes me have very few limits, as the ones I used to have are long gone. I like group sex, I like to share my slaves with other men when time is right. I also like organizing little parties or going to swinger's places. I get along with introverts and extroverts alike so don't be scared to message me no matter what you are. I am an advocate against the exclusion and shaming of mental disorders, as I have really close cases, so if you are of the idea that cluster B disorders are evil, this is not your profile either. I also have experience dealing with those type of disorders (BPD/Antisocial/Histrionic) as I have owned submissives that I helped personally with such disorders in the past.

About us:

When I was mid 20s I realized what my dream was: To have a slavehouse. And so I started working towards it. The idea is pretty simple: To have in-house slaves serving me and living a TPE/24-7 dynamic whilst they treat each other like sisters and care deeply for each other. I would nurture, guide and take care of you as you would be my priority. I would take it as my responsibility to make you happy and provide whatever it is you would need to achieve it. I want a setup that makes everyone in my house a fully developed person that genuinely consents and is happy to be part of the group. My idea of this would be to have something like a "family" where we are our own support network as we experience the BDSM lifestyle together. Definitely not the sort of "dungeon" type of slavehouse one would picture but rather a loving community with BDSM and kink dynamics and a clear hierarchy.

I am patient, resolutive and very open to change. I like to listen. While I would be the authority, I would love to have you come and express to me what you think isn't working or what you think is working but could work better. I don't expect you to be a submissive 24 hours a day, even on a TPE/slavery setup, unless that's exactly what you want and you are aware of the difficulties involved. I have tried and I realized it's hard to pull off unless full commitment from both sides.

I am down to give you space, time and freedom at certain situations (Ex: Groceries, family, work) as long as you never forget who you are and who you serve. The ideal scenario is reaching a point where I trust you look for my happiness to the point I trust your judgement on most scenarios because I know you were trained well enough. This doesn't mean I wouldn't make use of my authority, however, so rest assured you would be able to give as much control as you need, if you need it, to the point of me being the sole decision making person in your life if you ever need me to. That, of course, comes with communication, which will be key on what I am trying to build and achieve.

About you:

Committed, adventurous, open to explore and willing to serve. I don't care about experience, as experience can be built. The speed at which you need to learn will be decided by you, so don't be stressed if you think you need to go slower. You are ideally a person that likes servitude submission, you like to please your partner and make him happy. You are ideally someone that is able to communicate or at least tries to, but if you aren't I am not excluding you.

I am a very empathetic person and I have been able to navigate other person's needs in the past when they were unable to express themselves correctly, but I expect you to be someone that is transparent and honest. I can miss and I can be wrong, communication from your part is key for this not to happen. Lies are the worst thing you could to to me. I will be able to manage everything as long as you are honest to me and tell me about it. Don't get scared, I am a really understanding and patient Dom.

You are kinky, you like exploring kinks and you like to experiment. I have a very high sex drive and I also like certain scenarios that involve other people getting sexual with you. While servitude is key, the sexual part is also important so if you consider yourself asexual or have low sex drive this is probably not your place. Sexual experience is also not an impediment. We can go as slow as you need to, provided you want to keep pushing further. If you want to go slow and take your time experimenting, no issue with that. I will not discriminate based on experience, and will go as slow as required.

I want you to be able to be devoted to me, to worship me. I need someone that looks up to me as their lighthouse, that really can let go and give into being absolutely mine in body and spirit. If you are someone looking for casual play, that's okay, I have had people join my slavehouse for periods of time, to play or simply to experiment but please, and I can't emphasize this harder, let me know beforehand. I get attached to my subs. To me, my slaves are my entire life. If I ever see you as my potential long term submissive I will get attached. So please, for the sake of my feelings, let me know if it's just casual play so I don't get the wrong idea.

I will also say I am pretty kinky, I have a list of kinks that are part of RACK rather than SSC, like CNC, misogyny play, heavy degradation and the likes. I am very open to explore and have a twisted mind. While I do not require you to keep up with all of them, at least be on the same "fucked up" wavelength!

Final words:

I hopefully clarified what I am looking for and hopefully you read the entire post. I am trying to be as transparent as possible and as honest as I can be. This is a bi-directional relationship and I commit to give my all in exchange of yours so I will need to get to know you before anything ever happens. If you have any questions so be it. And if you are in a dynamic already and/or are a couple or any other specific circumstance that isn't just a single person please let me know to see if we actually fit in some sort of way (I once had a couple worship me and join my slavehouse as a couple for a couple months, it was very VERY interesting).

If you read until here: Thank you! I hope you liked what you read and I hope we click. And last but not least: If we don't click, I hope you find what you are looking for somewhere else. There's a place for every single one of us in this world and I am offering mine. No hard feelings if we happen not to be the one for each other.