Hi, I am 29, and work in Marketing. I am looking for someone with a strong desire for a committed, long-term partnership. I believe in the power of teamwork and collaboration, and I'm seeking someone who shares my vision for a fulfilling life together.

Below is an extract directly from my notebook based on my ideal partner which I have spent six months contemplating as I was recovering from my very first relationship break up with someone who was 10 years older than me.

What I'm Looking For: * Values: Someone who values honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect. * Lifestyle: A dynamic partner who enjoys travel, adventure, and experiencing new things. * Career: A driven individual with a passion for their work and a desire to build a successful business together. * Education: Preferably holds a bachelor's degree in business or a related field. * Religion: Not a priority, but open to someone who will not force their religious beliefs on me * Family Planning: Childfree and does not want pets as I have owned many pets since I was a child and feel like I have experienced the joys of looking after a pet * Physical Appearance: Prefers a slim build and lighter skin tones as I have the same build and stin tones. * • Maximum age of future partner: 32

What I Can Offer: * Support: A dedicated partner who will be your biggest cheerleader and support system. * Collaboration: A willingness to work together towards our shared goals and dreams. * Financial Stability: A strong work ethic and a commitment to building a secure financial future. * Reliability: A trustworthy and dependable partner who will always be there for you. * Sense of Humor: A lighthearted and fun-loving personality.

Additional Notes: * Relationship Structure: Prefers an egalitarian partnership with open communication and shared decision-making. * Open to Discussion: While I have preferences, I'm open to discussing other possibilities if there's a strong connection. If you resonate with these qualities and are looking for a life partner to build a beautiful future together, please reach out to me. Let's embark on this journey together!

Not Important • Hair Colour: Can be changed • Religion: Does not matter as long as any aspect of the religion is not forced down upon me.

Strictly NO: • Body type: Too chubby or Fat • Someone who smokes as this makes a person age faster • Vegans: This will always make it difficult to date as I love cooking and eating meat. • Relationship Structure; • Single Mom: the child will always be her first priority and there may be contact with the child's father where childs father may feel uncomfortable about his child having a step father making the whole relationship complicated. Additionally, since I never want to have kids of my own, I simply cannot imagine being on a relationship like that. • Female Led Relationship: Too much pressure, loss of autonomy which makes a man over reliant on his wife. • Traditional Marraiges (Male Led Relationship/Marraige): I don't like to be a controlling person in a marriage

My Strengths and Weaknesses • Logical planning and thinking - I am able to think and plan ahead and critically analyse a situation. But if I fall in love with the wrong person, then the love I have for that person clouds all logical reasoning. • Mission Oriented mindset - once I set my mind onto something, I push forward and refuse to give up no matter what the mindset is "it is better try and fail than to never try and have regrets". While this mindset has pushed me forward where I have strange and unusual stories to tell and helped me progress in life, it has also brought me a lot of pain and dissapointment. The other danger of having this type of mindset is that I tend to forget to live life. This is where having a future wife who is bit strict can be an advantage where she could make me slow down or take a break and live life. • Love and Emotion: Becomes very attached and overly tolerant when I am in love. The advantage of this is that I become very loyal and naturally lose interest in any other women. However, the disadvantage is that if the women I love becomes abusive, I will tolerate her simply because I love her. • Fear of that person leaving me, no matter how toxic she may be which leads to over thinking. What I did not like about my previous relationship but was willing to put up with and tolerate simply because I loved her

• Putting a newly met friend's feelings and happiness above mine where she was inconsiderate, selfish. • Too old → 39 but looked like she was 50 • Destroying her health in the process of trying to look like 25 • Treated me like a servant where I was only able to give suggestions but she made the final decision • Tried to get me into trouble • Plethora of medical issues due to her age.

During the past few months I made new Reddit post and below are some extracts from them which carry a lot of emotion in them and can help you understand how I now when I truly love someone. Also because I don't want to rewrite on entire post. So, here it goes.

People say I am crazy and I probably was, and I am sure I would have said the same before but as the saying goes "love is blind". I see it as an extreme test I went through where I found out far I was willing to tolerate and be how loyal and faithful I am to someone regardless of how that person's appearance changes when I truly love someone despite that fact that my mind froze for a few minutes when I first saw her as I was not expecting to see someone who looked like 50 compared to the photos she she had sent me where she looked like a 25 year old. It also revealed a lot of other aspects about me where I was patient when getting scolded for something small as arriving 10 minutes early (yes, early). In fact, I never argued back or scolded her as I never wanted to hurt her feelings in any way. This is of course is unhealthy and have come to realize that a relationship where both partners are equal is the way to go. Letting one partner take over completely and have the upper hand can create a lot of pressure and stress".

This previous relationship also showed me that one day when I marry someone, I will never leave even if that person ends up in a wheelchair, has paralysis on her face or anything, I will love her unconditionally no matter what. To be honest, this is a surprise to myself, as I always had doubts as to whether I am truly someone can be loyal and committed and this previous relationship proved that all my doubts were wrong.

The whole trouble with me is that I am a person who is too versatile, adaptable and can change based on the circumstances in life or to the person I am with which tends to make a women feel that I not being completly honest with myself.

Family: No siblings, just my parents.

My hobbies and Interest are wide and diverse. I just grab whatever opportunity comes my way and try my best to make the best out of it. A few examples are climbing a an active volcano to the summit and singing a song at the summit "your my little earthquake, oh let the earth shake". Heading out into the Ocean on a Jet Ski.

Work: Marketing, where I am featured in some advertisements and can share a YouTube link where you can see me on video and how I speak as well as in Logistics in an Engineering firm at the moment. I once did own a company once, yet, had to shut it down due to COVID-19 followed by a national economic crisis.

Smoking: Never have and never will.

Education: Two Diplomas in IT and Business, a Bachelors Degree in Business

House: I have my own

My values and beliefs: I strongly believes in the marriage values of "no cheating", "being loyal", "till death do us apart to love each other through sickness and health" and always being completely honest.

Financial Management: I write down all my expenses in a Spreadsheet and budget accordingly. This method helps me know exactly what I spent on and on what. As such it does not matter to me in a marriage if both husband and wife share bank accounts or keep the finances separate.

If you have read this far and would like to get to know me better, then send me a message and we can chat. Although, personally, I love voice calls as it helps create a deep connection in terms of emotion and just makes it easy to get the message across without misunderstanding.