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You: I’m looking for an older, successful man who embraces his dominant side and finds joy in both his career and personal life. His confidence allows me to fully embrace my submissive and feminine nature. I’m drawn to someone who is outgoing, social, and exhibits strong leadership. What I desire most is an intimate, deeply emotional connection with a man who offers mentorship and guidance. Reliability and honesty are key—I value a partner who stands by his word and follows through on commitments. I appreciate nurturing qualities as well.

A bit about me: I’m a senior in college (and, I’m still figuring out what I want to do with my degree).

I love going to the gym, browsing around Target, and making a perfect cup of coffee. It’s the little things that make me happy! 😂 My music and TV tastes span from the 50s to the 90s—I’m a big fan of Joan Crawford, Doris Day, and a total nerd for Gremlins and Lilo & Stitch.

Physically, I’m 5’1” and 110 pounds, and I do my best to maintain a healthy lifestyle. I’d love a partner who helps me stay on track with that. I’m blunt, outgoing, and feminine—styling my hair and doing my makeup boost my confidence. I also enjoy nature walks and listening to podcasts on mindfulness, true crime, and personal growth. Oh, and I adore my stuffed animals—they’re great friends!

My dream is to have a cozy home one day, complete with a mini library shed in the backyard—and, of course, several cats. Ideally I’d share a place with my partner.

BDSM/Notes: My interests are varied, and I enjoy a wide range of things. I tend to be a bit vague when explaining what I like, as it’s hard to list everything off the top of my head. It’s much easier to discuss in person or over a voice call. I’m not into anything violent or aggressive, and I always prioritize respect. Ideally, I’m looking for someone who can match my energy—something natural and authentic. Role-playing feels effortless when you’re being true to yourself.

I’m drawn to a caring daddy figure and enjoy dynamics that include rules, tasks, spankings, degradation/praise, and role-play. I’m comfortable with dynamics like master/slave, owner/pet, CGL, etc., Much more to be discussed! Also, not a kink but I absolutely love hand holding. Physical touch sexual and non sexual is a love language for me.

I’m looking for strategies to choose delayed gratification over instant gratification. I often struggle to resist temptations that offer immediate rewards. For instance, when I see a bag of candy, I’ll eat it, feel happy for about 30 seconds to a minute, and then regret it, often beating myself up for an hour afterward.

I also find it challenging to stick to my study schedule instead of going out with friends. Rules or a plan on how to improve my self-control and prioritize long-term goals would be ideal. I’d also love for someone to make certain decisions for me.

This all being said, I do; however, struggle with submission at times because of the vulnerability it requires and my difficulty trusting a partner. Strangely enough, I sometimes feel like a switch, as I can be bold and confident in my daily life. Ultimately, I’d love to find someone I feel truly safe with, someone who allows me to let my guard down and fully embrace my submissive side.

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