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49 [M4F] #Chicago, IL - 12 things I have learned so far about affairs
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- A well-written post will increase your chances by a minuscule percentage but only luck determines how many responses you will get.
- Ā If the conversation gets too hot too fast, either you won a jackpot or you are being catfished it's usually the latter.Ā
- When you get an immediate response to a F4M post, it's your lucky day and you should buy a lottery ticket.Ā
- Just because the conversation is going well for 2 days don't get too hopeful, it can crash and burn anytime.Ā
- Just because the conversation is going well for 5 days don't get too hopeful, it can crash and burn anytime.Ā
- Just because the conversation is going well for 10 days don't get too hopeful, it can crash and burn anytime.Ā
- Just because the conversation is going well for a month, by now you get the idea.
- If you find your AP is getting too busy all the time, it's time to say goodbye and start looking again, which is what I am doing now.Ā
- If you keep hearing a lot of "what about you" it's time to invest your time and energy in another person.Ā
- It helps to clearly mentionĀ Ā
- Who you are - 49 male living in IL, brilliant father, husband, fit and a terrible bathroom singer.Ā
- What you want - Someone who could be an emotional cushion, and really make my grey cells happy.Ā
- What your limits are - Goes without saying cant leave the marriage, abbreviated responses(hbu, hru, wbu etc), people who consider conversation as an interview where they just reply to the questions.Ā
- If you did find a good AP thank your stars, most people don't get so lucky.
- Lastly remember, there is a person on the other side with real feelings and a heart that can break just likes yours, we are all a little broken to be here so pls be kind.Ā Ā
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