About me:

46 , 5'8 brn/brn, objectively speaking I'm an average looking guy. I have had no issues attracting women on the apps but dating in 2024 is fucking exhausting. You can't really be honest about what you are looking for on your profile without the threat of being doxxed and it's an absolute minefield going out with women. I'm hoping to try and narrow down to somehow and make this fun again.

I was married for over 20 years and my children are now grown and I am now single living on my own. I am educated with STEM along with a military pension.

I believe that women are better at giving and preserving life than taking it. I believe that a man should know his way around a car and barbecue grill. I believe a man has a duty to protect his partner physically, emotionally, and financially. I believe it is more important to be good at being a man than being a good man. I am pro gun, pro women's rights, and pro adults doing anything consensually that they want that doesn't cost me anymore taxes.

I currently live in the south but looking for an excuse to move. The dream is to buy a 40 foot RV and travel (I work remote).

Sexually I consider myself kinky without being super weird, dominant both in and out of the bedroom, and I like being called Daddy by my partner as a symbol of our roles in our relationship.

What I'm looking for:

Someone shorter than me (I'd expect the type of woman attracted to me would also want this).

Someone either in shape or aspiring to get in shape with the right direction and guidance (I taught physical fitness and nutrition for a long time and I'm happy to assist here and would genuinely enjoy it).

Someone with goals and aspirations. You don't need to be formally educated and in my financial position you don't even have to have a career, but I would want you to have hobbies and interests outside of our relationship that consume you at least a fraction as much as work consumes me.

Race/age/religion/ethnicity none of that is really much of a concern to me.

I'm happy to send a (clothed) picture of myself and would appreciate one in return but your comfortableness and safety are more important than anything else so if you need a while to build the trust to do so, I'm totally cool with that.