Haiiiii

So, I came on reddit because I dislike datingapps. I dontlike the concept of swiping right away due to appearance alone. I believe a person becomes beautiful when their soul and character are beautiful. I guenuinely mean this. I'm not saying 'oh looks are a PLUS' because that sounds backhanded. I'm saying I will literally find whoever I find attractive the most and only handsome man.

However; I do love FOREIGN men. For a character reason. I love the accent, and new cultures, and theromance and dominance especially in latino men. I know anyone could have this, it's just more common.Im also here as I am more likely to find a man who is more like me. It matters a lot where you look for a person unless they're trying something new. Ex; find a girl at a party, you'll find a party girl... etc

That being said, I'm not a party girl. I'm extremely nerdyand would love someone who appreciates that. I love staying home and learning new things about just about anything. Furthermore, some of my hobbies include: p laying piano, cooking foods from other cultures, playin with my cute cat, sewing, working out/pilates.. running.. reading.. and any other silly girly hobbies you might think of lol :3

I am girly, but at first I can appear a bit stubborn and hard-shelled. I dont like vulnerability with people I just meet. When the shell breaks, though, I definetly am very very affectionate, clingy, and sweet.

Im inexperienced. I want to be valued and save myself for the right man for just about everything. I feel like everyone should have this mindset.. men and women. I'm not fond of FWB/one night stands.. etc. I would to turn a house into a home.. decorating.. cooking and bringing warmth and love. I dont mind working or staying at home, maybe both. A relationship is a team effort. I still enjoy having mentorship.. and a man be the man of the household whilst still supporting one another with love and respect..

I am educated. I have chemistry and computer science experience, and I am still studying a bit more. I do work

About me: 5ft.. 100 pounds.. long, black straight or wavy hair depending on the day. I am pale skinned with glasses and braces. I have a slim build. Though I enjoy the age gap dynamic, I dont want a man who is here solely for my age. I want him to enjoy it,for sure, but also enjoy Me as a whole. I want to have a special connection, have fun, be ourselves.. and make the best of our lives forever together. Im aware people should compromise in relationships. Should any issue arise, that is my perception, but these are deal-breakers I won't tolerate if it is something you currently struggle with as it is something you should work on BEFORE you move onto looking for a LTR. Some deal breakers of mine; 1. looking at random naked girls on reddit/OF/PORN addiction 2. Has an intense kink that prevents them from having a normal conversation 3. Wants to be shared or have me shared I like older men and I love all aspects of the dynamic, intimate or not. I need both.. not just intimate, right? It has to be wholesome.

If you read the whole thing, please message with something about yourself, why you resonated with my post. Tell Me what you liked most and a bit about yourself, too. :3