Looking for my forever.
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About me: I'm a 29 year old white male. I'm 6'2 with short dark blonde hair and a short reddish beard and blue eyes. I have a few extra pounds on but nothing crazy and I'm working to lose those right now. I'm open to TPE, Tradwife, or anything along those lines. I am also a Christian and I'm a virgin and plan to remain that way until marriage. I consider myself a gentle but firm leader. I will be very loving and attentive with you while making sure to provide guidance and rules to keep you healthy, happy, and safe.
About you: Also you should be open to having children. I prefer that you are white which would include white latinas or anyone that is considered white. Your weight isn't a big deal to me as long as you're not obese and I am looking for someone that is at least interested in living a healthy life in the future. I also prefer that you are a Christian or at the very least open to it. I would love for you to be a virgin as well but i know life happens sometimes and i would hate to miss out on someone special so I am open to non virgins as long as you currently view sex as a serious thing and are not currently sleeping around with people. You should be a submissive type. Must have a good sense of humor because life is terrible without laughing at things. I want someone who is more feminine and would wear dresses at least around the house. I am interested in a possible tpe situation where I would have to approve of certain choices like your outfits and provide tasks for you to complete and discipline when needed. Whether you work or not is completely up to you but if you do work I would rather you work from home but not a deal breaker if you would like to work outside of the home. I am not a wealthy man so if you don't work you should be someone that is happy with a humble lifestyle and not expect endless money although I definitely have goals and hope to reach them with your loving support. Should be willing to relocate to me as I don't plan on changing states. I want to get some land soon and have a place where we can raise a family and feel safe and have pets and plenty of room to move around.
I want to create a safe and loving environment for you where you can have the balance of freedom and structure provided by someone you know that always has your best interest in mind.
As far as our public appearance as a couple goes we will obviously leave the kink side at home but I do still expect a certain level of respect and submissiveness at all times. Also you should always protect your image when out functioning in the world. You will belong to me and your actions should make that obvious.
Now with all of this being said, don't feel like you have to fit into every dynamic or detail that I mentioned. If there's something you don't like but are interested in other parts please tell me and we can discuss. Also if you have a list of kinks or dynamics that you would like to be included in your future relationship I would love to hear them and we can see if we are compatible. I also am fully aware that you are a human and you won't feel like tpe everyday of your life whether it's your health or just a bad day and I want to make it clear that there will be allowances for these moments in our lives. I want communication to be at the highest level and for you to feel comfortable sharing with me whatever you may need to. As we age I'm sure our interests and kinks will change or intensify and I'm am very open to that and don't want you to feel like you're trapped in a box. I mention this so you know that I don't have some pornographic or fantasy book idea about how the intimate side of our relationship should go.
Please make sure that you are truly a submissive and that it's not just some fantasy. I've ran into women like this a few times on reddit who are clearly far from sub but are turned on by the idea. I'm looking for the real deal.
I purposely haven't mentioned any of my hobbies or interests so we can use that topic as an icebreaker instead of an awkward introduction. So if you are interested please send a description of yourself, age, appearance, etc and if you would like we can just exchange photos to make sure there is mutual attraction. Then feel free to tell me what you are into and what you're hobbies are and we'll go from there. You could also include your deal breakers in a potential spouse and anything about yourself that you think may be a deal breaker for me.
Just a heads up, I don't want to jump on a video chat or phone call immediately. There will also be times when I'm not available to text 24/7 and you should be okay with that.
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