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Might as well give this a shot! I'll go ahead and admit that unfortunately, due to trusting my ex & truly believing he meant it when he said he cared about me and would never leave me, I am now a single mom! I know for some guys, that's a no-go, so I'll put that out there! ♡

For anyone still reading, hi there. My name is Trinity, I'm 19, I'll be 20 in December. I'm just looking for someone older who will genuinely care about me and my interests, and will encourage me! Someone I can send my poetry to and they'll give honest, intelligent, useful feedback. Someone I can ask for advice and will help me. Someone who will encourage my passions and not just dismiss them! I'm looking for someone who has lots of world experience and is willing to share their wisdom and intelligence with me, but not in a condescending way. I am not looking for a hookup or a sexting buddy. Do not message me about sex; it's not happening anytime soon. Have a bit of self-control. Please. I hate to be harsh, but I can't even get more than 10 messages in with the people replying to this before they start asking about sex.

I would ideally like to form a friendship, and have that turn into a LTR based on trust, mutual respect, and kindness. Ideally, you'd be 27-38, but I'm willing to go a little over or under this range. If you're over 40, I'm sorry, but that's too much of a gap for me.

I'd love to find a fit, strong man and bonus points if you have a full head of hair! I'm located in SC right now, born and raised in SC actually, but if things go my way, I'll be attending a college in Nebraska in a year or two, since it's one of the only colleges in the US where I can have my lil munchkin on campus with me.

I'm just looking for someone I can call on the phone and get life advice from and have funny banter with. Someone who can give book recommendations and who can help me get my life together LOL! I'm really looking for a "cool uncle mentor" or a "smart English professor who happens to have a fave student" type of vibe, mainly a friendship with a mentor aspect. I don't believe in dating casually, so don't worry, you won't be competing with anyone else; I pursue ONE guy at a time, and I expect the same from you :)

I am totally willing to meet up, but again, keep in mind that I may be in a different state within a year or two due to wanting to finish college. However, I would have zero issue flying you out to me or working that out together, or even being long distance. I am extremely loyal, and for better or worse, I never give up on a relationship until it's literally not salvageable. You'd have nothing to worry about ♡♡ I adore a man with manners, intelligence, and who makes time for me. Words of affirmation and physical touch are the keys to my heart!

I, of course, will treat you with kindness and respect, and any effort you put into me will be returned as much as possible! I will do my best to return your love languages and make you feel appreciated. I promise, I can hold a conversation. I'm 5'1 and slim build (96-102 lbs, depends on day how much I eat) & I like to read, watercolor paint, craft, and other artsy stuff.

Just shoot me a message if you're interested. Attached a selfie to prove I'm not just like, a faceless bot karma farming.

https://ibb.co/x51kYW8 https://ibb.co/FXLd5TS ^ selfies :)