About me: 43 yo M 5’9” 152# Midwestern Physician

Sardonic yet passionate, I am a lot of things to a lot of different people, meaning in part I can fill all your needs. My past partners have been in agreement: smart as a whip, naturally confident, perhaps the most playful, silly, and funny man they have met, insanely curious, and driven for intimacy. I didn’t wake up one day and realize I was dominant, I was born this way: romantic, doting, and dominant.

Gentleman in public, but not in private. I take only a few things seriously: my partner and her kinky brain, her submission, and empathy for the world we live in. I am always playful. My sex drive is very high, but this mirror’s my activity in all aspects of life. I’m fit and have more vitality than most anyone 10 years my junior. I promise I will keep you on your tip toes.

My interests outside of Ds include a wide variety. I am a curious hedonist and think we should enjoy things at their highest level when possible who wants a partner that can match my curiosity. I cook almost daily. I love film, art, music, reading, food, and wine. I’m very well travelled and continue to explore. Nature is extremely important to me. And I love pets. Most of all I love to share with my partner. Also I always look put together (as should you!), I make my own bed and am even house broken, I know a real triple threat ;)

Dynamic trumps any list of dos and donts. Not that your limit list should be long since I am looking for a muse and I need all of you. I need to be able to use my creativity and attention to make my submissive even more owned as I play and toy with her completely from her nose to her toes. Not a big ask ;) just complete sexual submission. But my greatest goal is to make your dreams come true as you would mine. We should never stop flirting. Given my experience, I am certain I can fulfill all your needs of praise and attention as well as no matter how rough, dirty, or degrading you desire. I will want you to some degree you in all those states but I am only interested in this dynamic as a real life reality, not a pure fantasy

A successful partnership is built on trust and a commitment to pleasing and communicating and this cuts both ways. We have to be into each other before power exchange since I am into intimacy as much as anything. Knowing and loving my partner inside and out is important for me. Basically, I should know your tastes in all things and be able to think for you and order food or drink to fit you and any mood you are in as well as dictate your nails and clothes on occasion. But there is nothing I love more than putting a smile on my princess’ face as I put my hand at the small of her back. I am a romantic doting partner and if we both want them will be the most supportive engaged father to our kids you can imagine. I’m very affectionate and hands will never want to leave your skin and will always want head, feet or butt in my lap.

Also, I am completely monogamous. Daddy doesn’t share.

About you (I hope, I hope, I hope): Cute from nose to toes and submissive as all get out. Someone feminine and fit and attractive, my muse. Always at least looks put together. I want someone who both wants to be put on a pedastal as much as she wants to be pulled off it. Someone with an intellectual curiosity for art, food, culture, and wine is important. Someone who is compassionate.

You’re maybe a little needy. Maybe a lot needy. Maybe a little bratty. Maybe a lot bratty and sassy or slavish. I know what to do with all of them. Chemistry is what matters. But completely monogamous and devoted and loves to get on her knees (one way or another) to prove it. I could add an age, but let’s just say old enough to know what you want and mature enough to maintain it which I would ball park 25-38ish depending on the individual.

Experience with Ds/culture would be good but not as important as a knowledge for what you want and a drive to achieve it in person in a relatively short period of time (not rushing here either). Someone looking for a partner and husband and owner in the flesh and not looking for penpal. If relocation is not an option, we are not a match. A shared vision for a life together, a resilience to achieve it and maintain it, and a constant playful dynamic are most important. Dominance is not unilateral but if coming from a place of affection is receptive and iterative to be maintained in a happy, healthy, playful and perpetual state.

Are you my dream girl?