I know what you are thinking, is it really possible to become addicted to someone. I will admit this; I have that effect on people. I am not sure what it is I really do, I just be myself. A friend/former ex once told me that I have a natural draw to me that makes people feel accepted and seen. I believe this as In my life I have had many strangers come up to me, tell me their life story, and then proceed to just trust me when needing help. This is just me standing on the street this happens. A bit about me. I am tall I garden, mostly peppers and flowers (yes this includes hot peppers) I work on my house and build things for fun. (I am quite proud of my monsters I made for Halloween) I enjoy the DIA, hiking, and even sitting by the water, sometimes no matter the temp, hot or cold. Long drives at night, or to random cities in Michigan. I write, I read a lot and can lecture like no ones business. I love learning about other cultures, I currently am helping three people learn English and American custom so they can come here, or visit. Sounds good right? You are already addicted I know. You are thinking wow, all that and the voice that will melt me and make me feel all cozy on a call at night when I can’t sleep! Oh yah that and more. Now the catch, I mean you knew one was coming right? Two things really; I have recently endured a life changing event, not a good one. This is something that I don’t really want to talk about but, if I drift off or become too busy that is part of the reason. The second is worse, at the same time I have fallen madly in love with someone, however due to distance and other big issues she has figured we can’t be with each other and has shattered my heart and left me very numb to the world. Because of the latter, anything we do will be platonic and as friends. Sorry but that is all I want right now.

For you, I don’t expect you to help me with anything in the catch paragraph. We won’t even talk about it, I don’t really want to. What I am looking for is someone understanding and compassionate. Someone who knows that if I can’t text them within an hour of their text, I have a really good reason why didn’t. I get overwhelmed at work some days and it falls aside. Others, we can chat while I work, which I would really enjoy. I would like you to be who ever you are. I don’t have restrictions on anything so slide that DM and maybe you’ll find yourself on a cross state adventure randomly one weekend. Keep in mind, I like to hike a lot, and you will have to keep up with a six foot three person. So being in a bit of good shape and able to go about 10 miles would be amazing! As this time of year is the perfect hiking time of year. Be ok with voice chats, and texting whenever we feel like it. I do not care if you come to me venting your heart out, you’ll leave laughing your head off. I really like to go out to eat, so once and while we are going to random places that are really good. If you know about kayaks please don’t hesitate to write me, I would like to learn that sport. If you are not In Michigan, or southern Michigan where I am; don’t fret. I am open to people all over the world. I have spoken to, or have a friend in over 150 countries. It is easier to list the ones I have not talked to someone in. However, only been to five totals myself.
Slide into the DM and start your new addiction. While I am habit forming, and you will find yourself wanting to chat with me all the time, its ok, I am healthy for you.