Pretty much what the title says, I am looking for a friends with benefit situation but with as much emphasis on the friends part as the benefits part. Coming over to hang out, binge watch some stuff, grab some food, talk with each other, cuddle, give each other a massage, etc etc and not jumping straight to the fun part would be ideal.

If you were just looking to come over for the fun and then take off, that’s not exactly what I would be looking for and I am sure there are plenty of people around who’s alley that is up.

I am white, 6.2 215, pics available if needed, own my home. I pretty much spent my 30’s bettering myself and workings towards certain ideals and goals and have now finished everything. I was alone most of that time though and became kind of touch starved and pretty lonely. I am getting older and figured why not right? I don’t really have anything to lose other then a little time by throwing this up. I have no preference on nationality, age, ht/wt/ etc.

Before I go further I just want to say that I have never done a fwb before, on top of it being a number of years since I have had any “fun” lol. I had just wanted to put that out here in case it’s a turn off for some people as it very well might be so that way you don’t have to keep reading if you were looking for someone who does this a lot or is more experienced.

As I mentioned I have never done this before and am not 100% sure how it works, but I would like to talk to people first before just inviting you over. Lets talk and chat some and see if we vibe with each other. I would be happy to talk about boundaries and other things as well. On top of that I would like for us to be safe so getting testing done before would be preferential if not outright required, but we can talk about it. I would also like this to be exclusive and somewhat consistent. We can talk about the details further.

I am around the middle of California ish rather then north or south but as long as you don’t mind the drive I am happy to cover the gas so north or south cali or even maybe edge of nevada don't hesitate to reach out. I don’t mind you staying as long as you would like on your visits as well, so you don’t have to come down for just an evening, stay the weekend or for longer.

I imagine these kinds of posts are riddled with bots, fake people, and traps so please add the phrase Kweh! Somewhere in your message to me so I know you read most of it at least or I likely wont respond, unless its super long and detailed. Chat or message is fine. Please tell me a little about yourself, a rough estimation of where you are, and what you are looking for out of something like this.

I would prefer this to be in person, but If I simply cant find that and you are open to something online, well its better then nothing right? If you are too far away feel free to let me know that you might be interested in an online thing instead. I hope everyone out there who is touch starved finds their connection, whatever it may be.