I am old enough, and had enough relationships to know what I want. I am not trying to just hook up with someone and move on to the next person. I don't see a reason to lie or be misleading, so just going to be honest and try to find the relationship that I want. If you are willing to relocate, then location does not really matter much.

I basically want a trophy wife, some arm candy who wants a protector to take care of them and provide for them. I worked hard in my life, I have a successful career, a nice big house that is so empty. I am not a super model, but I am pretty attractive dad bod type of guy, and someone to motivate me to get back in shape would be great. My past partners in relationships thought I was attractive, hilarious, smart, kind, and I am sure money didn't hurt. The issue is 5 of them wanted to be independent, live on their own, be successful by themselves. Eventually that conflicted with my wanting to take care of someone and have someone to stay with me. My 6th relationship wanted me to take care of her, she never wanted to work, things were pretty good at times, but she was an alcoholic and very violent, and currently in jail on her 6th assault charge (3 against me).

The main problem with me is I am a bit of a nerd. I work in IT, I like anime, I like to read manga, I don't get out that much because where is there to even go to when single?! So I can be a bit boring sometimes.

So what do I want? I want to give someone the life I wish I had! I want to take care of everything for someone and give them an amazing life, because that's what I would want. In exchange, I am going to be a bit shallow, but at least I am honest about it? I want someone who is 5'6 or shorter. Around 5'2 is ideal, but I am not going to be mad about your height. A healthy weight is a must, visually I prefer to see (lightly) abs, ribs, muscles. Honestly slightly underweight is probably most attractive to me, but I don't want someone to starve and stay underweight, so that's something I need to probably work on. You can even be slightly overweight, but please no one who is obese. I want someone who is a good role model for me and helps me lose weight and get in shape. I seem to attract mentally ill women for some reason, (anxiety, depression, BPD, OCD) which is fine to a degree as long as you just want to get better and have a good life. Just don't try to stab me like the last woman and it will be fine.

I try to see the best in everyone, I give people the benefit of doubt, I think everyone is just human and wants to be happy. We don't need to make life so complicated, it doesn't need to be confusing or dramatic. I just want a smaller girl, who wants to be taken care of by a slightly older man. Wants to cuddle in bed, who will at least give anime a chance maybe? If not I guess we can just watch your crime shows and reality tv. What more can I really ask for than that?

So message me and we can talk, I am an open book and will tell you anything you want to know.