Hey! As the title says, I'm 40, been living in London for a little while but originally from Eastern Europe. Well educated and even better read. Solid career in IT finance. Single, no kids, no past marriages. 178cm tall, there's a pic of me linked in the profile if you're interested.

I don't have an age gap kink, but recently found myself attracted mostly to women under 30, due to physical appeal, more carefree lifestyle and general excitement about life. And who knows, maybe my next source of excitement is reading this right now =).

I'm naturally on a soft dom/caretaker side of things, but there's no single dynamic that I want to pursue. If you need guidance and are interested in an older man's life experience, I'm happy to share that. If you enjoy a mentally engaging and emotionally stable interaction based on respect and good communication, I'm your guy. If you simply want to feel seen, heard and appreciated for more than your looks, that's what I want as well.

Ideally, I'm looking for a energetic, smart, kind and ambitious person who wants to be in charge of her own life and is willing to put in effort in achieving her goals. I am that kind of person as well, and it would be great to discover what we could aim for together. I want us both to be self-starters and self-motivated, but support each other where such support is required. I definitely prefer relationship I could see as a longer term project, and I'm willing to invest my time, empathy and other resources into its success.

At the same time I am not opposed to more short term and lighthearted options. I still woildn't go for an ONS or anything non-exclusive, but other than that it could be anything - from being friends or travel buddies to an ongoing fwb thing or a time-scoped fling. As long as the communication is transparent and we're honest and open, details can be negotiated.

Quick check list: - You are or aim to be financially independent. I don't care about your money but don't want to be seen primarily for it myself. - It's ideal if you're in Greater London. Slightly less ideal if you're anywhere else in the UK. Other locations are not a deal breaker, but be ready to meet up within a few months and relocate here within a year. I won't be able to relocate outside the UK for the next two years, and it's a hard limit. - Regular communication is key, so if you can disappear for days and can't do voice/video calls it will not work. - Be emotionally available and drama free. Secure and anxious attachment styles are welcome, avoidant one is not. - No smoking or substance abuse please. It's okay if you occasionally drink or take light stuff, but anything beyond that wouldn't work.

Thanks for having read this far 😃. If you wanna know more about me, do check out my post history, as there are a few personal ads there as well. Alternatively, just text me and we'll discuss the rest =).

Looking forward to getting to know you