Hello reddit:

Lets get right to it! I am looking for an age gap relationship with an emphasis on heavy (and very sexual) DDlg dynamics. I identify as a soft dom who is tender and caring 95% of the time with a primal and possessive side that gets drawn out based on the context of a given moment. I crave the mutual exchange of power and trust and I cherish being granted the mantle of "daddy" for my sub.

I want to be there for you, someone you can call to vent about school or work, someone who will come get you when your car is throwing a fit. I want to go out on SFW and NSFW daddy/daughter dates, like solving a corn maze (Ive never actuall gone to one 😵), visiting museums, and going to the arcade. I want to learn about what gets you screaming with excitement and for you to show me all the things you think are cool. Ill be your supportive dad, your perpetual cheerleader and conqueror of jar lids.

On the NSFW side, I have a wide range of kinks: bondage, impact play, mild verbal/physical humiliation & degradation, CNC, anal, misogyny, edging, orgasm denial, forced orgasms, breeding, TPE, free use, snd somnophilia. I also love photography and would be super interested in non explicit rope bondage photo shoots, especially if I choose your outfits. I also am interested in creating structure in your life and creating a slow burn to controlling your day to day.

Some ideas: It may start out with good-morning texts and selfies. Eventually this brces mandatory outfit checks on Sundays where you model 5 days worth of clothing for school/work for me to approve. Our daddy/daughter movie nights start out innocent but eventually sitting on my lap or spooning with my arm tight around your neck becomes the new norm.

Later, we will adopt a rewards and punishment systrm. When you do as I say, I reward you (e.g., stuffies for hitting your water intake for a week, ice cream for getting A's on all your quizzes). When you fail, I punish you (e.g., spanked over my lap, tied up with complete sensory deprivation while I touch you).

These are just potential things we could do and Id love to hear whar you envision from your dream daddy.

I use the stoplight safeword system and safety is 1000% my top priority. I have AHA BLS training and mental health first aid training. I believe in continuous, enthusiastic informed consent.

About me:

* 5'8", 170lbs, athletic build

* Liberal

* Nerdy

* Can fix things

* Advanced degree

* Atheist

My ideal match:

* Leftist

* From Illinois or eastern Iowa/western Ohio

* Nonsmoker

* STI free

* Cat person

* Loves science/and or art

I am not looking to rush into anything. These types of things require time to build. If you think we might be a match, Id love to hear about:

1. Your three goals for 2025

2. Your favorite stuffie and how you chose them

3. How you celebrate Halloween

Note: I am in a relationship and my partner finds the Ddlg dynamic gross so she does not know about this side of my life. We are not sexually active and she does not live with me.