This is a tricky one. I'm not really sure how many people out there feel the way I do about this, or are at least interested in jumping in.
I love intimacy. I don't just mean physical. I love closeness. Especially mental, emotional closeness. Sometimes, I can't get enough of it. Sure, that's not that weird. People are wired to seek intimacy. But for me, it hits almost compulsive levels.
I want intimacy too soon. I want it too much. I'm probably hooked on it. When people say love is a drug, this is what they mean. It's addictive, and persistent, and I really, really need it.
Maybe there's some of you, or even one, who feel like I do. Real, true, deep intimacy is beautiful and fulfilling, and it is hard, and uncertain, and takes a long, long time to truly cultivate. And the compulsive among us...we maybe don't have that kind of time.
I'd love to just dive right in. Look, I'm not insane. I'm not saying let's commit anything to each other, or get involved in anything too complicated. I'm not even suggesting we meet (though I'm not opposed if things feel right). I'm also not expecting either of us to force anything for the sake of some weird mental experiment that I'm clearly constructing here, haha.
I'm just hoping to find someone of like mind. Hopefully someone intelligent, and interesting, and fun, and witty, and who wants to get too close too fast. Too involved. Not dangerously so...just more than is warranted from how long we've known each other.
Let's whirlwind each other. Let's l-bomb each other after too short a time. Let's fuck around and find out, yeah? I can't wait to meet you.
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