Big disclaimer: I am currently Transfem which means that I do everything in my power to look female, you can call me the kinky word for this yep yep, but I wanna go towards transgender as soon as I actually find a connection to therapists that can help me with that. This is why I went for the T as I am clearly doing a lot to be just that.

I am kinky! And I will talk about it in my post, please be aware of that. Not to say that I don’t mind romance, I would be really happy about actual affection.

Alright, keeping in line with this Groups rules, hopefully remembering everything, I shall write a bit of an essay as per usual for my talkative butt. Here is a little guide to this post. As a staunch reminder:

->what relationship type am I searching for? ->who I am searching for? ->who am I?->what is important to me?

What relationship type am I searching for? While I don’t mind a hook up or being there for someone who just needs some "support" from time to time, I actually would like to meet someone who would be happy with a long term interaction aka. an relationship. I don’t mind either monogamy or polygamy, you just gotta life with the fact that I do have some stakes in other things which I will explain later. I do not want to help cheat on anyones wife, I am fine with cuck stuff if it is known and accepted by both parties, but I have been asked to be a side piece, I will not be that. Never. Trust is paramount for me so please keep that in mind moving on forward.

So, who am I actually searching for? I don’t really care about gender or looks, I would be happy with male and female partners, I don’t mind dad bods or skinny people, just be healthy in body and mind. I cannot give the care of myself to someone who doesn’t take care of themselves, I am actually fairly happy with a stable lifestyle. This is pretty much my only real thing to consider as I rarely abide to beauty standards in terms of attraction, preferring partners based on their actions towards me. While I am switch personally, this is not guided towards me searching for subs, please I don’t need any more requests about that, I don’t mind casual sissy friends but I am primarily searching for a Daddy, Mommy, Mistress, Master, you get the point. I absolutely prefer someone close, but I am in germany so I can deal with online stuff, however this sub clearly states that the primary focus is on real interaction and that’s what I am going for. As I am fairly flexible in terms of interests I don’t mind either soft or harsher people. Just be able to communicate with me, as you can see with this post I prefer proper communication as I want to feel safe with you to be submissive towards you. Lastly, and I cannot stress this enough, I am not a fast person in terms of kinks, I will not jump immediately into action, we will have to talk and get to know each other.

All in all:-be healthy-be dominant-be communicative-have patience-I don’t care about location, proximity is obviously preferred. But I am well aware of the lack within the german online space in terms of variety. -gigantic plus for eloquent people who take charge. I do not want to lead the conversation for once. -needless to say but I love older people, especially when there is a significant age gap. Just don’t be around my age, please.

But who am I? If you want to see who I am in terms of looks, open up my profile. I have loads of pictures. Due to the fact that I don’t want to force you to read through my other posts I shall give you a brief description of who I am here.

I am 24, living in Germany close to Wiesbaden but working in Frankfurt, I primarily use kink as an escapism to just relax and calm my mind after some hectic times at work or just to have fun at home alone. As a person I do like to show off, posting pictures of my outfits online without any exposure focus or kink. This interest in showing off translates into this, I would be quite happy with someone who likes to watch me get dressed, take photos, do stuff. I am not a shy person, but I need trust in someone before I act this open with them. As for kinks? Man I have a wide array, let’s just say I am open to experimentation

I am a classical listener to gothic and metal music, I enjoy gaming, do workouts to get a nice feminin body, read a lot and watch a lot of series / movies due to my work. I am rather happy with staying inside, chilling with whoever, but I am not above social interaction and can deal with it. My style is pretty variable, while I do not sound like it (due to me trying to be as clear as possible here) I have a bubbly personality that enjoys a lot of different things and I dress up in a lot of different styles depending on my mood.

What is important to me? Apart from things important for you to consider, something I want us both to be mindful about is care, I can be a bit overwhelming in my personality and that actually kinda destroyed some doms before as I can accidentally take over interactions with what I want. I would like to get to know someone who can deal with this and remind me to take care of the dynamic.

My biggest interest is actually submitting. I’ve done a lot of casual bdsm and I am the dominant part towards people, this time around I would be really happy if I find someone that enjoys taking control for themselves and helps me calm down my usually pretty stubborn head. So yes, I would say that things like TPE, Training and Micromanagement are on the table to discuss.

Openness. Beginning said openness I clearly state that while I am a crossdresser, I also have a life on the side that I need to cultivate. I started reaching out for therapist to start with the long way towards trans female, so if you want a sissy that will probably end up being your personal girl with extras I am there for you :)

That should be it, there is probably more to talk about but I am tired (it is close to midnight in germany as I type this) so these texts have to suffice, I am sure you can find plenty about me by just poking around on my profile. Have a nice day!