(this post is only for people in the Los Angeles area)

It's very easy to find attractive women now - they're all over social media, dating apps, etc. What's much harder for me to find is depth - women who like to learn, who are intelligent and interesting, who I can discuss things with, who can make me laugh, who think about what's right and wrong, who make decisions about the kind of person that they want to be, etc etc.

If that sounds like you, and you're someone who feels like you don't fit in anywhere or that nobody gets you, well, you do fit in somewhere, and that's with me, because I'm someone who does want to take the time to learn about you, understand you, and appreciate you.

To me, the human experience is all about developing an understanding of who you are and what you have to offer the world, and then helping other people to do the same thing for themselves. I started that process very young, and I'm still in the middle of it. If you're in your mid 20s or even mid 30s you're right at the beginning, and your success in life will depend on how well you do that, and I'll help you however I can.

If I sound very serious, well I am serious about some things and definitely have a sense of purpose, but I also love having fun, even if my idea of fun isn't always the same as other people's. I'm going to keep this post SFW (as a personal challenge), but I do like spending time with intelligent women and have pretty much been teasing and tormenting them my entire life in one way or another.

If you want to know more about me, well I'm not that easy to sum up in a couple of paragraphs, so I'll just throw in a couple highlights, all true, I'm the son of a wiccan astrologer, a writer (published & paid), went to a top business school, self-taught in tech, and worked and studied in Europe and Asia. I married the love of my life at 30 but it wasn't quite happily ever after, which is why I'm here now.

I do get a fair amount of interest on the R4R subs, but haven't quite found the right person yet, and if you're still reading and still interested, that could be you because that's exactly how these long posts are designed to work -- if you weren't the right person you would have given up by the third paragraph. So now it's up to you to click that button and get into my DMs, and I'm asking you to do that as a personal favor to me. Thanks for reading!